Understanding Transgenderism

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Medical dictionary

4chan

Imageboard website where people can anonymously share and discuss all manner of topics. Due to the way content expires and is pruned, a lot of content is only available for hours to days.

Adolescent

A young person who is developing into an adult. There is no universally-accepted age range for this, but this period lasts from approximately age 10 to 24 years.

Adult

Someone who has reached the legal age of majority, which is generally 18 years of age. This term can also refer to non-human animals when they have finished growing/maturing.

AFAB (FAAB)

Assigned female at birth (female assigned at birth). People whose sex was assigned female when they were born, usually based on their external genitalia. Sometimes used in trans communities to refer to females who do not identify as female/woman.

Affirmative care

Healthcare that affirms someone’s self-proclaimed gender identity. The reasons for someone to choose a trans identity are explored only a little or not at all. Sometimes other mental health issues are overlooked or are attributed to being transgender and it is assumed that once someone can (medically) transition, these other mental health issues will resolve.

AGAB

Assigned gender at birth. Sometimes used to refer to someone’s sex.

Agender

Ally

Someone who is not LGBTQIA+ but who supports this community’s ideology or causes and takes action to advance their agenda, for instancy by spreading their ideology online or at protests.

Alphabet mafia

Altersex

Having sex characteristics that deviate from healthy female/male sex characteristics but without being intersex.

American Civil Liberties Union (ACLU)

Non-profit organisation that has been working hard for what they consider to be ‘trans rights’ even when this is at the expense of rights of others.

Androgyny

Anti-defamation League (ADL)

A USA-based international Jewish non-governmental organisation that specialises in civil rights law. They advocate for what they consider to be ‘trans rights’.

Asexual (ace)

A sexuality used to describe people who do not experience sexual attraction or interest in sexual activities with others.

Autogynephilia (AGP)

A term derived from Greek for 'love of oneself as a woman' coined by researcher Dr Ray Blanchard for ‘a male's propensity to be sexually aroused by the thought of himself as a female’. Many TiMs do not want to be described by this term even if they meet the definition of AGP as they prefer to believe that they are really a woman and that their identity has nothing to do with sexuality or paraphilia (or they know that admitting to this being (mostly) a sexual thing for them will make it harder to get people to go along with their wishes). Four subtypes of AGP have been described:

  • anatomical, focusing on having a woman’s body or body parts; 

  • physiological, focusing on bodily functions that only females have; 

  • behavioural, focusing on activities seen as feminine; and 

  • transvestic, focusing on wearing women’s clothes. 

Autoandrophilia (AAP)

According to Dr Ray Blanchard's transsexualism typology, the proposed paraphilic tendency of a female to be sexually aroused by the thought of becoming a male. AAP seems to be much less common than AGP.

AMAB (MAAB)

Assigned male at birth (male assigned at birth). People whose sex was assigned male when they were born, usually based on their external genitalia. Sometimes used in trans communities to refer to males who do not identify as male/man.

Anti-androgens

Drugs used in males to block male hormones from functioning by inhibiting testosterone production or by blocking the androgen receptor (so that androgens, such as testosterone, do not work as normal). Examples of such drugs are spironolactone and cyproterone. These are prescribed to males who want to ‘transition’ to ‘female’ to suppress the effects of androgens produced by their body, preventing/reducing further masculinisation.

Finasteride blocks an enzyme involved in testosterone metabolism and is prescribed to treat hair loss and benign prostatic hyperplasia (enlargement of the prostate) in males. Some females may also use it, such as females who ‘transition’ to ‘male’ and experience unwanted male-pattern baldness. This kind of use can come with unwanted side effects such as redistribution of fat, reduction of sex drive, and the return of menstruation.

Authentic self (true self)

BBL (Brazilian butt lift)

BDSM

Bondage and discipline (or domination), sadism (or submission), and masochism.

Bimboification

The act of ‘becoming stupid and hot’. A sexual fetish in which males get off on crossdressing to become an airheaded slut, keen to be used and degraded.

Binder

Compression garment worn by TiFs for breast binding to achieve a flat(ter) chest.

Binding

The activity of pushing the breasts down/flat to reduce their apparent size. Done by TiFs who want to hide their breasts. This is done using (trans) tape, sports bras, or a (chest) binder. As this compresses the breasts, this can restrict breathing and movement and is therefore not safe to do for any length of time. Binding can damage skin (rashes, skin infections) and can also damage (even break) the ribs. This is done by adults as well as minors.

Binge and purge

The cycle of some males who cross dress. This includes a binging phase during which the man purchases effeminate clothing, makeup, wigs, accessories etc. for fulfilling his cross-dressing urges. He then fears getting caught, which is followed by guilt and self-loathing. Then, purging follows by getting rid of all his cross-dressing props. The urge to cross dress will resurface and the man will start a binge phase again.

Biological sex

Biphobia

A negative attitude towards bisexuality.

Bisexual

Blåhaj

A stuffed animal in the form of a shark sold by IKEA that seems to have become popular in transgender circles. You may see this toy in photos of people in hospital after having undergone cosmetic surgery.

Blaire White

Right-of-centre TiM YouTuber with a large audience who has expressed being against children transitioning and who has given a platform to detransitioners and others to share their stories.

Blanchard’s typology of transsexualism

A psychological topology proposed by Dr Ray Blanchard (a sexologist) in the 1980s and 1990s. In it, Blanchard categorises transwomen into two groups: homosexual transsexuals (HSTS), effeminate gay males who have ‘homosexual gender dysphoria’; and autogynephilic transsexuals (AGP), males who are sexually aroused at the thought or image of themselves as women, who have ‘non-homosexual gender dysphoria’.

Body dysmorphic disorder (BDD)

Also called body dysmorphia. A mental-health condition in which someone spends a lot of time worrying about their appearance.

Body integrity identity disorder (BIID)

(Boomer)hon

Derogatory term used for a (late transitioning) TiM who does not pass/who looks like an old man.

Born in the wrong body

Bottom growth

Bottom surgery

Boxer ceiling

A term used by TiFs who are attracted to males to describe the unwillingness of many gay men to have sexual relations with them.

Boy

Human male who has not yet reached the adult age.

Boy mode (boymoding)

A term used by TiMs to describe when they are not cross dressing (as opposed to ‘en femme’).

Boygasm

Slang word sometimes used by TiMs to refer to a ‘male’ orgasm (in contrast with 'girlgasm', something they say they experience when they are taking female hormones).

Breast augmentation

Enhancement of the breasts using implants and/or fat injections (a ‘boob job’).

Buck Angel

Famous TiF porn star who transitioned as an adult. ‘The man with a pussy.’

Bussy

Gay slang for male anus. 'Boy pussy'.

Butch

Referring to someone having a stereotypically masculine look or behaviours, these days only used for females with such characteristics.

Caitlyn Jenner

Famous TiM formerly known as Bruce Jenner. He was a successful Olympic athlete and only came out publicly as a transwoman in 2015, aged 65. In that same year, Glamour magazine awarded him ‘Woman of the Year’. He is a member of the Republican Party in the USA.

Caster Semenya

Athlete from South Africa famous for middle-distance running. He was taking part in the female competition because he claimed to have been recorded as female at birth. However, it became apparent that he is in fact a male who has 5-alpha reductase deficiency (5ARD). This means he has XY sex chromosomes and has testes, but that his sexual development did not take place as normal. Sources: https://www.tas-cas.org/fileadmin/user_upload/CAS_Award_-_redacted_-_Semenya_ASA_IAAF.pdf and summary: https://www.tas-cas.org/fileadmin/user_upload/CAS_Executive_Summary__5794_.pdf

Chaser

Chastity/Chaz Bono

TiF writer, musician, and actor. Child of Sonny Bono and Cher.

Chestfeeding

A word introduced to replace the word ‘breastfeeding’ for lactating females who are uncomfortable using the words ‘breast’ or ‘breastfeeding’.

Christine Jorgensen

The first TiM to become widely known in the USA for having had SRS (bottom surgery). He had surgery in Denmark in the 1950s: first an orchiectomy (removal of the testes) in 1951, and in 1952 a penectomy (removal of the penis). He eventually underwent a vaginoplasty in the USA. Birthname: George Jorgensen Jr.

Christine Weston Chandler (Chris Chan)

A male with serious cognitive issues and mental health issues who currently identifies as a (trans)woman/MtF. He documented a big part of his life and showcased it online, attracting attention in fringe online spaces. He was charged with incest for allegedly having sexual relations with his mother (then 79 years old) who is reported as suffering from dementia.

Cisgender (cis)

A term used by people who ascribe to transgender ideology to describe people who do not identify as trans. It assumes that ‘cis’ people are comfortable with their sex or sex stereotypes and ignores the fact that many people who do not identify as trans will have had their own struggles with gender, sex stereotypes, their sexed bodies, or their sexuality. Some people see the word ‘cis’ as a slur because they feel that they are being made a subcategory in their own sex class: for instance, a female may feel that if someone uses the word ‘cis woman’ for her, she is being made a subcategory of the category ‘woman’, alongside ‘transwomen’. Using the word ‘cis woman’ suggests there are other kinds of women, which, to the people using this word, are ‘transwomen’. However, people who do not think that ‘transwomen are women’ will disagree that there are other women than women (the female kind).

Clavicle-shortening surgery

Surgery that aims to reduce the shoulder width. The clavicles are sawed in half and a segment is sawed off from one part of each side to reduce the length of the clavicles. The remaining parts are connected using metal plates. It is also possible to widen the shoulders by sawing the clavicles in half and adding space in between this split to create longer clavicles.

Clinical trial

A clinical trial is a prospective (looking for outcomes during the study period) biomedical or behavioural research study performed on human participants designed to answer a specific question(s) on medical or behavioural interventions (treatments), often comparing a control group that received no treatment or the best available treatment with a new treatment.

Clocking

The act of noticing that a trans-identifying person who presents as one sex is not of that sex. For example, when you see someone who is dressed in stereotypically feminine clothes and with breasts (either real or prosthetics) but whom you can tell is a male, and vice versa.

Coming out

The act of telling the people in your life that you are transgender. This term is also used when people tell their social circle they have a non-straight sexuality.

Comorbidity

The presence of more than one disease or condition in one person.

Concern trolling

Disingenuous expression of concern about an issue to undermine or derail a genuine discussion.

Consistent, insistent, and persistent

ContraPoints

YouTube channel run by a TiM going by the name Natalie Wynn. On this popular channel, Wynn shares his video essays on a wide range of topics such as gender, politics, and philosophy. Elaborate sets and costumes are used in these video essays.

Conversion therapy

Any kind of therapy that aims to change the patient’s sexuality. This is most well known in context of Christians sending their gay children off to conversion therapy with the aim of making that child straight. Conversion therapy does not ‘work’ because it is not possible to change someone’s sexuality. In light of transgenderism, TRAs call any kind of therapy or treatment that does not fully affirm a person’s claimed gender identity or trans identity as conversion therapy. This purposeful misuse of the term ‘conversion therapy’ is to make the unsuspecting public think that only affirmation is the right way to help trans-identifying people. In reality, what TRAs call ‘conversion therapy’ is psychotherapy or talk therapy or any kind of coaching etc. that helps the patient better understand where their transgender ideas and feelings come from in addition to trying to determine if there are any other mental health issues that this person may be struggling with. The aim is not to make the patient no longer identify as trans but to help the patient get better insight into themselves and to treat any other mental health issues.

Cope and seethe

Online statement to suggest to someone that they are trying to deal with something difficult (cope) and feel angry but are unable or unwilling to express that clearly (seethe).

Cosmetic surgeon

Surgeon who performs surgeries for the sole purpose of the patient achieving a more desirable look.

Cotton ceiling

A term used by TiMs who are attracted to females to describe the unwillingness of many lesbians to have sexual relations with them. The ‘cotton’ refers to the underwear of lesbians who are unwilling to be intimate with males.

Crossdressing

The activity of dressing up in clothes, shoes, accessories, jewellery, hair and makeup and sometimes prosthetics (breasts, hip pads, penis and scrotum) that is stereotypical for the opposite sex to present as the opposite sex. Someone who does this is called a cross dresser (CD) or transvestite (TV). These days this group is, by some, considered to be transgender and part of LGBT.

Cross-gender identity

Transgender identity.

Cross-sex hormones

Hormones associated with the opposite sex to the person they are prescribed to/used by. In females, this is testosterone. Males are prescribed oestrogen, as well as an anti-androgen to block the effects of the testosterone their bodies produce (except when the male has had his testes removed). These are sometimes also called ‘wrong-sex hormones’ by gender-critical people.

Crybully

Wiktionary has a great definition: “A person who engages in intimidation, harassment, or other abusive behaviour while claiming to be a victim.”

DARVO

Deny, attack, and reverse victim and offender. A reaction used by some perpetrators of wrongdoing (especially sexual offenders) when they are being held accountable for their behaviour.

David Reimer

Canadian male (one of a set of identical twins) whose penis was severely injured in a botched circumcision when he was just an infant. Under treatment by Dr John Money, David was raised as a girl as Money hypothesised that gender identity is primarily learned. David and his brother were subjected to childhood sexual rehearsal play by Money and this traumatised both children. David realised as a child that he was not a girl and started living as a male in his teens. He suffered from severe depression and committed suicide at age 38; his twin brother had already died of a drug overdose at age 36.

Dead name

The name a trans-identifying person was given at birth and no longer uses after coming out. In trans circles it is considered bullying or abusive to use someone’s dead name (the act of ‘deadnaming’).

Desistance

Cessation of a transgender identity or of gender dysphoria; desisting; a desister. Usually used to refer to someone who may have socially transitioned but did not medically transition, and who then ceased having a transgender identity.

Detransition

The act of ‘going back’ to present as your sex after having transitioned in one way or another to present as the opposite sex or a gender identity that is not traditionally linked with your sex; detransitioning; a detransitioner. Usually used to refer to people who underwent medical transition.

Dilation

The activity of keeping open the neovagina using hard objects shaped like dildos (called dilators). This is mandatory to do after vaginoplasty genital surgery. In the first weeks and months after surgery, the patient will need to do this several times a day and as the wounds heal, frequency can supposedly be reduced and/or replaced by sexual intercourse. Skipping dilation can result in the canal shrinking in length (‘losing depth’) as well as width (becoming narrower, becoming (too) tight) and becoming too small for sexual intercourse. Some people experience dilation as (very) painful and others experience less or no discomfort. Some people may find they eventually no longer need to dilate at all whereas others risk shrinkage of the canal even after they have apparently long healed from the surgery.

Discord

Disorder of sexual development (DSD)

This refers to what used to be called ‘intersex’: when someone is born with ambiguous genitalia, meaning it is not immediately clear to the doctors whether the baby is female or male. This is sometimes called ‘differences in sex development’. Examples include Klinefelter Syndrome (when a male has three sex chromosomes (XXY) instead of the normal two (XY)) and Turner Syndrome (when a female has only one sex chromosome (X) instead of the normal two (XX)). There +- 50 or so DSDs each with a different cause (the examples mentioned here are due to having too many or too few sex chromosomes but some other DSDs result from issues in just one gene). People with a DSD are not a third sex, they are still either female or male.

DIY HRT

Do-it-yourself (DIY) hormone replacement therapy (HRT). The procurement and use of hormones for the purpose of medical transition but without a prescription or oversight from a healthcare practitioner. Generally done through online purchases of products that claim to contain the desired hormones. This is outside of regulated prescription drug use and is therefore illegal. Because of this, it is unknown what the composition or dose of the product is, where and how it was produced, and whether it is sterile and uncontaminated by other chemicals. Because patients are not at all tested or not routinely, someone may be using a drug that is especially dangerous for them due to an undiagnosed medical condition or their hormone levels may be outside of an acceptable/appropriate range.

Donor site

An area of the body that is designated as the site for harvesting tissue in order to create a phallus (facsimile of a penis) for phalloplasty genital surgery in TiFs. This can be the lower arm, the upper leg/thigh, the abdominal area, or the shoulder/back.

Double mastectomy (bilateral mastectomy)

Removal of both breasts. Generally performed on women who have breast cancer or are at a very high risk of developing breast cancer. However, this surgery is also performed on girls and women who identify as trans (called ‘top surgery’ in this community). Some internet slang terms used for this surgery are: yeet the teet, and teetus deletus. Several techniques are available depending on the size of the breasts:

  • Double incision, creating two horizontal incisions across the upper chest 

  • Double incision that meets in the middle to create one long incision across the upper chest 

  • Inverted T with, for each breast, an incision around the nipple, a horizontal incision on the upper chest, and a vertical incision connecting the two 

  • Fish mouth that leaves a higher horizontal scar on each side of the chest with a scar around the nipple and this nipple placed in the middle of the horizontal scar 

  • Peri areolar leaving scars around the nipples 

  • Keyhole, leaving scars around part of the nipples 

  • Other variations 

The nipples may be completely removed and replaced as a skin graft (‘free nipple grafts’) and some patients choose to have the nipples removed permanently because of anticipated benefits for healing and/or they don’t want to keep their nipples for other reasons. In some countries, these surgeries are performed on minors as young as 12 years of age. Breast tissue does not grow back, and it is possible to permanently lose sensation in the nipples or be left with unusual/unpleasant sensations in the nipples as a result of the surgery (in surgery types that retain the nipples). Because the breasts are removed, breast feeding is no longer possible.

Douching

Rinsing out the neovagina using (soapy) water, diluted vinegar, or other solutions to clean the neovaginal canal. This is required because a neovagina is not self-cleansing. Without douching, the person may collect dead skin cells, lubrication (from dilation and/or sex), body fluids (from unprotected sexual intercourse) etc. in the canal which may cause a foul odour and infections.

Dox(x)ing

Publishing identifying information about someone online against their will.

Drag king

A female who cross-dresses and performs as a caricature of a man usually using stereotypically masculine costumes, fake facial hair, etc.

Drag queen

A male who cross-dresses and performs as a caricature of a woman usually using garish costumes, wigs, and makeup. See Womanface.

Drag queen story hour

Events organised in public libraries during which a drag queen is invited to read stories to young children. Some people consider this inappropriate due to the inherently-sexual nature of drag.

DSM

The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, a handbook with descriptions of mental health conditions. It is used widely by mental healthcare practitioners in the USA and every now and then an updated version is published. In March 2022, the DSM-5-TR was published.

Echo chamber

Eddie Izzard

Egg

Word used by TiMs to describe themselves and others before said person realised they were trans. When their ‘egg cracked’ is when they made the realisation that they are trans and stopped denying it to themselves. The analogy was chosen because there’s a ‘chick inside’ (of the ‘egg’) …

En femme

A term used by male cross-dressers/transvestites to describe when they are crossdressing (as opposed to ‘boymode’).

Endocrinologist

Equality Act 2010

In the UK, the Equality Act 2010 legally protects people from discrimination in the workplace and wider society. In it, ‘gender reassignment’ is a protected characteristic. According to the Equality Act 2010: “A person has the protected characteristic of gender reassignment if the person is proposing to undergo, is undergoing or has undergone a process (or part of a process) for the purpose of reassigning the person's sex by changing physiological or other attributes of sex.”

Eugenics

The practice or advocacy of improving the human species by selectively mating people with hereditary traits deemed desirable. The term ‘negative eugenics’ refers to the aim to reduce/eliminate reproduction of people with undesirable hereditary traits by means of sterilisation, abortions, and other methods for family planning. Some gender critical people have referred to medical transition as a form of eugenics as medical transition can make someone permanently infertile. Some minorities and vulnerable people seem to be overrepresented amongst people who claim a transgender identity (some of who will go on to medically transition), such as people who are not straight, and people who have (severe) mental health issues or who have a developmental disability such as autism spectrum disorder.

Eunuch

A male who has been castrated (removal of the testes). This was done to some males in the past for various reasons for instance, to prepubescent boys who sang so they could continue singing at a high pitch as adults (castrati). This was also done to some male slaves, servants, and guards who served women’s quarters and harems. 'Eunuch' is now considered to be a gender according to the WPATH Standsards of Care 8 (which can be found here: https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/pdf/10.1080/26895269.2022.2100644).

Eunuch Archives

Self-described as a ‘friendly support site for the eunuch community’, this website runs a forum, a chat room, personal ads, and a fiction archive. The fictional archive is reported to contain stories in which sexual abuse and genital mutilation of children is described.

Euphoria boner

The erection that some males get when they cross dress. Some TiMs say this has nothing to do with sexual arousal and that it is normal to get an erection when you ‘feel good’...

F2M

Facial feminisation surgery (FFS)

Any kind of surgery to the face that aims to reduce masculine features so the patient’s face looks less male (and it is hoped, more female). There are multiple procedures that people may choose as part of FFS. A selection:

  • Cheek augmentation using implants, or breaking the cheekbones and placing them into a different position, or through taking fat away from one part of the body and injecting it into the cheeks. 

  • Chin width reduction to shorten and narrow the chin by removing some of the bone. 

  • Eye and lid modification which cuts away excess tissue. 

  • Forehead contouring removing parts of the forehead bone to reduce frontal bossing. 

  • Hairline lowering which removes forehead skin along the hairline. 

  • Hair transplantation that removes hair from one part of the head to place in balding areas. 

  • Jaw angle reduction by removing parts of the lower jaw. 

  • Lip lift, which takes away some of the tissue between the nose and upper lip, and lip augmentation through fillers, implants, or fat injection of fat removed from elsewhere on the body. 

  • Rhinoplasty (‘nose job’) to change the shape/size of the nose. 

  • Tracheal shave which removes/reshapes part of the thyroid cartilage (Adam’s apple). 

Faʻafafine and Fa'afatama

People who identify as a third or fourth gender role in Samoa (and in descendants of Samoans).

Facebook

Social media platform for sharing text and image/video content. Nudity and pornography is not allowed on this platform as children can use the platform.

Facial masculinisation surgery (FMS)

Any kind of surgery to the face that aims to reduce feminine features and to enhance/add masculine features so the patient’s face looks less female (and it is hoped, more male). There are multiple procedures that people may choose as part of FMS. A selection:

  • Adam’s apple surgery that uses cartilage from another part of the body to create the appearance of an Adam’s apple. 

  • Cheek surgery using implants to make the cheeks more angular. 

  • Forehead surgery aiming to create a wider forehead. 

  • Chin surgery using bone, implants, or fat to broaden the chin or make the jawline appear sharper. 

  • Hair transplantation that removes hair from one part of the body to place on the face. 

  • Nose surgery using cartilage or bone grafts to enhance the nose. 

Fallon Fox

TiM mixed martial arts (MMA) fighter who publicly came out as trans in 2013 although he has undergone genital surgery as part of ‘transition’ in 2006 and has been using hormones as part of ‘transition’ too. It was not known until 2011 that he, although presenting ‘female’, is a male meaning that he has been allowed to compete against females who were not told about the sex of their opponent. He is well known for fracturing a female opponent’s skull in 2014 which caused controversy and sparked discussions about whether males should be allowed in female (combat) sports.

Fauxgina

Female

The sex that can give birth to young or produce eggs.

Since transgenderism has gained so much visibility, reductionist and dehumanising terms have started to be used to refer to females, possibly in an effort to not upset/offend TiMs and TiFs. This includes:

  • menstruator 

  • people who menstruate 

  • uterus-haver 

  • people with a vagina 

  • people with a cervix 

  • birthing parent 

  • non-man 

  • etc. 

Fair Play For Women has made a graphic showing some of the different terms used to refer to females in light of transgenderism:

 

From Fair Play For Women, https://fairplayforwomen.com/language2/ .

Interestingly, this kind of language change has mostly/only been applied to females and not to males. Males are still called men or boys, not: penis-havers, people who ejaculate, people with a prostate, etc.

Female masking

The activity in which a male wears a rubber mask and sometimes also torso and/or genital prosthetic to cross-dress as a woman.

Femboy

A male who presents in a way that is seen as conventionally feminine by way of his appearance and behaviours.

Femcel

Feminine essence

The idea that TiMs are females trapped in male bodies.

Feminism

From the Cambridge Dictionary: “The belief that women should be allowed the same rights, power, and opportunities as men and be treated in the same way, or the set of activities intended to achieve this state.” There are different types of feminism, with three main traditions: radical feminism, liberal/mainstream feminism, and socialist/Marxist feminism.

Fetish

A kind of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, body part, etc. Examples are a foot fetish, a leather fetish, a fetish for tights/stockings etc.

FetLife

Social networking website for adults into kink, BDSM, and fetish hosting photos, videos, discussion groups, etc.

Female genital mutilation (FGM)

The act of injuring the female genitals for non-medical reasons. This can be done in various ways ranging from a cut to the clitoris to removal of external genitalia and leaving the girl or woman with only a small hole for urination and menstruation which invariably will cause health problems such as infections and difficulties with sexual intercourse and childbirth. FGM is harmful to sexual function too. This practice has no health benefits for the victim and is done for cultural/religious reasons in parts of Africa, the Middle East, and Asia. This is sometimes performed by people without medical training and with only rudimentary instruments and not in a sterile environment.

Flag

Sexual minorities use flags as part of their public visibility, such as the rainbow flag designed by Gilbert Baker in the 1970s as a symbol of pride for the gay community. This flag evolved over time. The transgender flag was designed in the late 1990s to represent this community and is merged with the colours of the Philadelphia Pride flag to create the Progress Pride flag. There are dozens of other flags for all manner of other sexual- or identity minority groups (many can be found here: https://pridearchive.tumblr.com/ ). The latter are not well known by the general public as they are not used frequently outside of LGBTQ spaces.

Forced feminisation

Front hole

A word used to refer to the vagina. Used by TiFs who don’t like to use accurate anatomical terms or ‘culturally feminine’ terms for their vagina. Also: bonus hole, boy hole.

FtM

Furry

Someone who is into furry fandom: anthropomorphic animal characters. This can include dressing up in an animal costume (like sports mascots) called a fursuit. Sometimes seen as a fetish/kink because some of this community’s art is pornographic in nature.

Futanari

Gaff

Gatekeeping

Informal language used by trans-identifying people to refer to any resistance they may find from healthcare practitioners to accessing ‘affirmative’ care (medical transition). For instance, a therapist telling a trans-identifying person they will not prescribe hormones right now would be said to be gatekeeping. TRAs generally see gatekeeping as a problem as they want trans-identifying people to have easy access to the drugs and surgeries they want for medical transition.

Gay

To have a homosexual sexuality meaning one is only attracted to people of the same sex that they are themselves. Can refer to both males and females. See Lesbian.

Gay-Straight Alliance (GSA)

Also called gender-sexuality alliance (GSA) or queer-straight alliance (QSA). Student-led community-based organisations seen in middle schools (starting at 11 years old), high schools, colleges, and universities in the United States and Canada.

Gender

A nebulous term used to group people together based on societal roles or behaviours generally associated with being female (femininity) or male (masculinity) but somehow not about being female or male (as these are sexes). In English, the word ‘gender’ and ‘sex’ are often used interchangeably although they do have different meaning, muddying the waters for a sensible discussion and making language less clear.

Gender affirmation surgery (GAS)

Gender binary

A view in which gender has only two categories: woman and man and that females are women and males are men.

Gender-based violence

Harmful acts directed at an individual based on their gender. The term is usually used to refer to violence directed at girls and women when it comes to topics such as female genital mutilation (FGM), domestic violence, sex trafficking, etc. However, this term is meaningless when gender does not mean sex because if someone’s gender can be different from their sex, how will a perpetrator know whom to target when he is looking for girls and women to victimise? ‘Sex-based violence’ would be a more accurate term.

Gender critical (GC)

Being critical of transgender ideology/transgenderism, meaning that one does not agree at all or not fully with statements made within the context of transgenderism. For instance, disagreeing with the statement ‘transwomen are women’ or differentiating between ‘transwomen’ and women/females can get you branded as gender critical or even a ‘transphobe’. See TERF.

Gender confirmation surgery (GCS)

Gender creative

Gender diverse

Gender dysphoria

The new term in the DSM-5 for what used to be called gender identity disorder (GID). It refers to psychological distress that results from an incongruence between one’s sex assigned at birth and one’s gender identity. This is a mental health condition.

Contrasts with gender euphoria. According to transmedicalists you need to experience gender dysphoria in order to be trans. According to other trans-identifying people, you don’t need to experience gender dysphoria to be trans and experiencing gender euphoria is enough to call yourself trans. Others will consider anyone who identifies as trans for any reason, as trans. Not everyone who experiences gender dysphoria will identify as trans.

Gender euphoria

Gender expansive

Used for people who have a gender expression or show behaviours that broaden the socially and culturally defined behaviours or beliefs for their sex. Seemingly similar to gender-non-conformity.

Gender expression

The way in which someone expresses their gender identity. This can relate to behaviours, fashion, body shape, and voice.

Gender fluid

Someone whose gender identity is not fixed and can change over time, supposedly as frequently as daily or even hourly.

Gender identity

Someone’s own sense of whether they are a woman or a man, or both or neither, or something else altogether. According to transgenderism, most females have the gender identity ‘woman’, and most males have the gender identity ‘man’. However, some people have gender dysphoria and do not feel they are a woman despite being a female, or don’t feel they are a man despite being male. Or a female feels she is a man, or a male feels he is a woman. People with gender dysphoria are termed transgender in this world view. It is not clear how gender identity is different from gender.

Gender identity disorder (GID)

Gender incongruence

Gender non-conforming (GNC)

A term used for people who defy regressive sex stereotypes, such as girls who like to play with trucks or want to have a masculine haircut or men who like to wear makeup or like to collect dolls.

Gender reassignment

Gender recognition act (GRA) 2004

Gender recognition certificate (GRC)

A certificate people in the UK can apply for if they want their ‘affirmed gender’ (sometimes called an ‘acquired gender’) to be legally recognised in the UK. A panel of people with legal or medical qualifications will review such an application to ensure it meets all the legal requirements. The applicant must have been diagnosed with gender dysphoria in the UK, be aged 18 or over, have been living in the affirmed gender for at least two years and intend to live in this gender for the rest of their life. People can apply even if they have not medically transitioned in any way and do not plan to either.

This means that males who still have their penis and testicles and have typical male strength and libido can legally be recognised as female. Secondly, the language refers to ‘gender’ but what is changed with the GRC is legal sex.

Gender recognition surgery (GRS)

Gender roles

Also referred to as sex roles. Behaviours and attitudes that are culturally accepted or appropriate for a person based on their sex. Someone who does not fit the gender roles for their sex is considered to be gender non-conforming (GNC).

Gender Unicorn

Illustration created by Landyn Pan and Anna Moore that explains transgenderism. It suggests that someone’s gender identity, gender expression, sex, physical attraction, and emotional attraction all exist on a spectrum and can vary independently of each other. Very similar to the Genderbread Person.

Genderbread Person

Illustration created by Sam Killermann that explains transgenderism. It suggests that someone’s gender identity, gender expression, sex, sexual attraction, and romantic attraction all exist on a spectrum and can vary independently of each other. Very similar to the Gender Unicorn.

Genderqueer

Refers to people who don’t feel comfortable with the gender binary and who may see themselves as gender fluid or as falling outside of the ‘man’ and ‘womangender categories.

Gender variant

Genital preference

To prefer female or male genitalia. In some circles it is not accepted to say that you do not want to date/have sex with trans-identifying people. If you are a lesbian who only wants to date females and you don’t want to upset people who support transgender ideology by outright saying this, you can say that you are only interested in women and that you have a genital preference for female genitals/vaginas. However, to some people this statement opens the door to TiMs who have had vaginoplasty/vulvoplasty.

GIRES (Gender Identity Research and Education Society)

‘GIRES is a UK wide organisation whose purpose is to improve the lives of trans and gender diverse people of all ages, including those who are non-binary and non-gender.’

Girl

Human female who has not yet reached the adult age.

Girl dick

Slang term used by some TiMs to refer to their penis.

Girlgasm

Slang word sometimes used by TiMs to refer to a ‘female’ orgasm that they feel they can experience once they start taking females hormones and/or have had bottom surgery.

GLAAD (Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation)

GnRH analogues/agonists

Gold-star lesbian

Slang used in LGBT communities referring to a gay woman who has never had sex with a man. A silver star lesbian has slept with only one man once and in that moment realised she is gay. A bronze star lesbian is someone who has had sex with multiple men but was never aroused. These terms are also used for gay men but with slightly different meanings.

Grooming

The act of building a relationship, trust, and emotional connection with a minor with the purpose of manipulating, exploiting, and abusing the minor.

Gynaecologist

Medical specialist for female health issues, mainly revolving around the female reproductive system. Some TiMs who have had bottom surgery may feel they need to visit a gynaecologist, but the typical gynaecologist will not know what to do with a neovagina as it is not part of the female reproductive system or a female body part.

Gynaecomastia

An increase in the amount of breast gland tissue in males. This can be caused by an imbalance in their hormones, and by males taking prescription drugs for medical transition.

Gynandromorphophilia (GAMP)

Hair removal

Permanent hair removal can be done using laser hair removal or electrolysis techniques. This is generally done on the face for males who want to present ‘as a woman’, and on the genital area for males who want to get bottom surgery. This is also done on females who want to get phalloplasty for which hair needs to be removed from the donor site.

Harm reduction

Also called harm minimalisation. This refers to public health policies designed to lessen negative social and physical consequences of certain human behaviours (legal and illegal behaviours). For instance, the state providing needles to people who want to use illegal intravenous drugs with the aim of reducing the spread of infectious diseases.

He-ma’am (GameStop Trans)

Online nickname for the middle-aged TiM who went off into a rage at a GameStop worker in response to his perception of being called ‘sir’. He kept repeating in an aggressive tone ‘It’s ma’am!’ whilst stomping around and kicking over some of the items for sale. He goes by the name Tiffany Michelle Moore.

‘Her’

The ‘girl’ or ‘woman’ a TiM refers to when he sees himself ‘as a girl/woman’ when looking in the mirror.

Hermaphrodite

An organism that has both kinds of reproductive organs and can produce both female gametes and male gametes. True hermaphroditism, also called ovotesticular syndrome, is an intersex condition in which someone has ovarian tissue as well as testicular tissue and is very rare in humans. People who have this syndrome generally do not produce both fertile sperm and fertile eggs.

Heterosexual

Hijra

Hipbone implants

Titanium implants fixed to the pelvic crest to make the pelvis wider at the top, aiming to give the patient a less masculine/more feminine waist:hip ratio.

Homophobia

A negative attitude towards homosexuality.

Homosexual

Homosexual transsexual (HSTS)

HRC (human rights campaign)

HRC is an LGBTQ+ civil rights organisation that ‘envisions a world where every member of the LGBTQ+ family has the freedom to live their truth without fear, and with equality under the law. We empower our 3 million members and supporters to mobilize against attacks on the most marginalized people in our community.’

HRT (hormone replacement therapy)

Use of prescription hormones to correct an imbalance. The term is also used by trans-identifying people when they start using cross-sex hormones to achieve levels of hormones that are not within the natural/healthy range for their sex, so this use is technically not HRT. Some slang terms are used online to refer to this kind of use.

In TiMs:

  • titty skittles 

  • antiboyotics 

  • anticistamines 

  • Fem&Ms 

  • tit tacs 

  • breast mints 

  • womentos 

  • vitamin E 

  • the Notorious HRT 

In TiFs:

  • T 

  • boy juice 

  • proboyotics 

Hugboxing

Hypothalamic-pituitary-gonadal (HPG) axis

This refers to someone’s hypothalamus (a part of the brain), pituitary gland (also called hypophysis, a small endocrine (hormone secreting) gland in the brain), and gonadal glands (ovaries in females, testes in males) as if they were a single entity. This axis is a key player in development and regulation of systems such as the reproductive system and immune system. The hypothalamus secretes gonadotropin-releasing hormone (GnRH). The pituitary gland makes luteinizing hormone (LH) and follicle-stimulating hormone (FSH), and the gonads produce oestrogen (females) and testosterone (males).

Hysterectomy (‘hysto’)

Removal of the uterus. This may be accompanied by removal of the cervix, ovaries (oophorectomy), Fallopian tubes (salpingectomy), and other surrounding structures. Once the uterus is removed, it is no longer possible for this female to become pregnant. Once both ovaries are removed, it is no longer possible for this female to reproduce. If one of the removed ovaries is saved in cold storage, it may be possible to use one of the eggs in the future using a surrogate if the female no longer has a uterus but there are no guarantees it will be possible to retrieve viable eggs nor is access to a surrogate guaranteed.

When the gonads (in this case, ovaries) are removed, the person will have to take hormones for the rest of her life because her body can no longer make enough of its own sex hormones.

I am Jazz

American reality TV show on TLC following the life of TiM Jazz Jennings from when he was a teenager into young adulthood.

Incel

Involuntarily celibate. An online/slang term used to refer to people who would like to be sexually active (generally only refers to men) but who can’t seem to find a willing partner and who are part of an online community for people with this kind of sexual frustration. Attitudes to women are hostile, as well as the attitude towards sexually-active men.

Incel to trancel pipeline

The move of some incels to choose to identify as transgender in an effort to improve their life, not out of experiencing gender dysphoria or having a paraphilia.

Indication

The approved use of a medical procedure or medication. There can be multiple indications for a procedure or medicine. If a condition is indicated for a certain treatment, it means that clinical trials have shown that the treatment can improve or cure this specific medical condition and the expected benefits outweigh the possible risks of side effects/harm.

Informed consent

From professional literature on this topic:

Informed consent is the process in which a health care provider educates a patient about the risks, benefits, and alternatives of a given procedure or intervention. The patient must be competent to make a voluntary decision about whether to undergo the procedure or intervention.  Informed consent is both an ethical and legal obligation of medical practitioners in the US and originates from the patient's right to direct what happens to their body. Implicit in providing informed consent is an assessment of the patient's understanding, rendering an actual recommendation, and documentation of the process. The Joint Commission requires documentation of all the elements of informed consent "in a form, progress notes or elsewhere in the record." The following are the required elements for documentation of the informed consent discussion: (1) the nature of the procedure, (2) the risks and benefits and the procedure, (3) reasonable alternatives, (4) risks and benefits of alternatives, and (5) assessment of the patient's understanding of elements 1 through 4. [Shah et al., StatPearls Publishing, 2022]

However, in transgender healthcare, ‘informed consent’ is generally used to refer to a way of receiving treatment that does not have such a stringent process but in practice means that someone can visit a healthcare practitioner once or twice and then receive a prescription for drugs or support letters for surgery on the assumption that this is what the patient wants, and that the patient knows what is best for them. It appears a lot less like traditional medical practice and more like ordering a product off the internet.

Can a parent consent on behalf of their child? We all assume parents try to do the best for their child but some are harming their kids knowingly (Munchausen syndrome by proxy – 'transhausen by proxy'). Can adults not fall victim to ideology (some religious groups forbid blood transfusion for themselves including any children in their care; some religious groups perform circumcision on their children)? If the child grows up to resent this happening to them, who do they take issue with, the ideology? The MDs? The parents?

Informed consent clinic

In the context of transgenderism, this refers to healthcare clinics that provide medical transition to people on the basis of giving the patient what they ask for without much or any further investigation into why this patient asks for medical transition or whether they meet the diagnostic criteria for gender dysphoria.

Instagram

Intersectionality

Intersex

Jazz Jennings

A North-American TiM who is the centre of the TLC TV Show ‘I Am Jazz’ and who wrote the children’s book ‘I am Jazz’ and the memoir ‘Being Jazz: My Life as a (Transgender) Teen’. Jazz started medical transition as a child receiving a puberty-blocking arm implant at age 11 and has undergone vaginoplasty bottom surgery at age 17. Additional surgeries to fix major complications from the genital surgery were needed (possibly as a result of the penis being very small due to puberty being blocked from a young age so there was not enough penile material to create a canal). Jazz had a healthy body size throughout childhood, but since his late teens he has gained a lot of weight to the point he became morbidly obese.

Jessica (Jonathan) Yaniv

J. K. Rowling

Famous British female author and philanthropist who wrote the Harry Potter series (amongst other works). She has been speaking up for the rights of females to have female-only spaces and has been getting a lot of backlash for it from TRAs. The latter portray her as a “transphobe” simply for standing up for the rights of girls and women (females).

Journey

Julie Bindel

English radical feminist writer. Nottingham City Council cancelled a scheduled talk of Julie Bindel over her views on transgender rights the day before the event was to take place. Bindel announced legal action under the Equality Act 2010 and the Human Rights Act 1998 and the Council eventually apologised and admitted they had acted unlawfully. See https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-nottinghamshire-63745075 .

Karen White

Infamous TiM who raped two women outside of prison. He sexually assaulted women in female prison after he was transferred there when he claimed a transgender identity. He is also convicted for stabbing a neighbour and has previous convictions for the following crimes: indecent assault, indecent exposure and gross indecency involving children, animal cruelty and dishonesty.

Kathoey

Keira Bell

A British woman who started medical transition as a teenager followed by a double mastectomy at age 20. She came to regret her transition and detransitioned soon after her surgery. She became well-known in the UK debate on transgenderism as she is speaking publicly about what happened to her. See https://www.persuasion.community/p/keira-bell-my-story .

Kink

Non-conventional sexual practices.

Kinsey scale

Kiwi Farms

Internet forum used to discuss online figures and communities.

Kayla Lemieux

Canadian male high school teacher who turned up after summer holidays having ‘transitioned’, presenting with gigantic prosthetic breasts worn under a tight-fitting top. The rest of the outfit consisted of tight shorts, a long blond wig, and makeup. There was seemingly no pushback from the school, and he continued to show up dressed like this. It is suspected that this is a very committed troll and there is an online story about how this teacher “was almost fired for ‘toxic masculinity’ last year, as well as not embracing woke culture”.

Laurel Hubbard

Laverne Cox

TiM actor from the USA and LGBT advocate. In 2014, Glamour Magazine named him as one of its 'Women of the Year'.

Lesbian

A female whose sexuality only includes other females.

Lesbian erasure

LGB Alliance

LGBT history month

Annual month-long observance of LGBT history and the history of LGBT rights.

LGBT pride month

A month (generally June) dedicated to celebration and commemoration of LGBT pride (“the promotion of the self-affirmation, dignity, equality, and increased visibility of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) people as a social group.”, see https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/LGBT_pride ).

LGBTQIA+ etc

Lia Thomas

TiM swimmer who ranked 554th in the men’s and then went on doing much better when competing against females. This contributed to the continued debate on whether males have an unfair competitive advantage over females.

Linda Ann Bellos OBE

British radical feminist and gay-rights activist who does not agree fully with TRAs and has received backlash for this.

Lived experience

Personal knowledge about the world gained through first-hand experiences.

Living your best life

Love bombing

The act of trying to influence a person by showing them a lot of attention and affection. This is often part of an abuser’s repertoire to try to control and manipulate a person by making them feel dependent and obligated to them.

M2F

Male

The sex that fertilizes eggs and does not produce babies or eggs itself.

Male genital mutilation (MGM)

Permanent modifications of the male external genitalia for non-medical reasons.

Man

Dr Marci Lee Bowers

American gynaecologist and surgeon who performs surgeries for medical transition. He is a TiM and has made it into mainstream media because he is one of the surgeons who performed genital surgery on Jazz Jennings (when Jazz was just a teenager).

Maya Forstater

Meat Lego

Medical transition

Men’s Rights Activists (MRAs)

Men who disagree that men as a group have institutional power and privilege and think that instead, men are victimised and disadvantaged compared to women.

Meninism

Mermaids

British charity and advocacy organisation for transgender, non-binary, and gender-diverse children, young people, and their families. Susie Green was Mermaid’s CEO for six years and is the mother of a TiM. She took her then 16-year-old son to Thailand to get bottom surgery. In 2022 the charity was the subject of an investigation by The Daily Telegraph for allegedly offering chest binders to youth without parental consent. The charity also states that puberty blockers are ‘physically reversible when treatment is stopped’ despite a lack of evidence for this statement and more and more evidence appearing that some possible effects of puberty blockers are irreversible.

Meta-analysis

A type of statistical analysis that combines the results of multiple scientific studies. These studies have to be very similar in the way they were performed so that the outcomes of the different studies can be combined and analysed together, as if all the patients took part in the same study with a larger group of patients than took part in the individual studies.

Metoidioplasty (‘meta’)

A kind of bottom surgery for TiFs in which the T dick (enlarged clitoris from use of testosterone) is moved higher up on the pubic area, the labia majora are used to create a sack (to put implants in at a later surgery to mimic testicles), the urethra is extended through the T dick hoping the patient can stand to pee, and the vagina is closed up (in a vaginectomy). Centurion metoidioplasty is a variation of metoidioplasty that uses the round ligaments from the labia to give extra girth to the surgery result.

There are variations to this surgery such as not having the urethra rerouted/extended or not opting for a vaginectomy. The result is a ‘micropenis’ of sorts which is likely not able to penetrate a vagina or anus. This surgery does not take a full-thickness skin graft at all so there will be no scars elsewhere on the body (unlike in phalloplasty bottom surgery).

MGTOW

Men going their own way. Antifeminist community of men who want to separate themselves from women and a society they feel has been corrupted by feminism.

Minodoxil

Minor (child)

A person who has not yet reached the legal age of majority. In many countries this legal age of majority is set at 18 years of age.

Misgendering

Using pronouns that are used for someone’s sex against the wishes of this person, because this person wants you to perceive them as the opposite sex with the demand you use the pronouns used for this opposite sex for them.

Misandry

Misogyny

MLM (MSM)

Men who love men; men who have sex with men. Males who have sex with other males.

MtF

Narcissistic rage

Outburst of intense anger (or silence) exhibited by some people with narcissistic personality disorder. Sometimes seen in trans-identifying people, mainly TiMs, when they are challenged on their claims that they are a ‘real woman’, a ‘female’, that they should have access to female-only spaces, or that whomever they are attracted to should be sexually available to them.

Natal sex

Neophallus

Neopronouns

Newly-invented pronouns that someone who feels they have a unique or special gender identity may ask or demand to be used for them. Examples are: xe/xem, ze/zir, and fae/faer. In the wider population, almost no one uses neopronouns, so they are not part of general vocabulary.

Neovagina

A surgically-created tunnel or canal (a blind pouch) in the groin of a male with the aim of it replicating the aesthetics and some of the functions of a vagina: the only function being penetration by something/someone else. Performed on TiMs in what is referred to as vaginoplasty bottom surgery.

Neurogender

“An umbrella term to describe when someone's gender is somehow linked to their neurotype, mental illness, or neurological conditions.” See https://gender.fandom.com/wiki/Neurogender .

NHS

Nonbinary (NB) (enby)

A gender (identity) that is not ‘woman’ or ‘man’ and either sits between the two or fully outside of the sex stereotypes. This is different for every person who has adopted this identity. Can include Neutrois (a gender identity characterised by gender neutrality).

Non-disclosure agreement (NDA)

A legal contract between two or more parties which outlines confidential information and materials the parties want to share with each other but also want to restrict access to, agreeing that this information is not disclosed. For instance, after a medical malpractice lawsuit, the parties may agree to a certain amount of money as compensation for the malpractice but with the caveat that no one can share that any money was paid out or the amount.

Non-op

Nullo

Oestrogen

The female sex hormone mainly produced in the ovaries with some produced in other tissues. Males also naturally have some oestrogen in their body. TiMs who wish to medically transition often take oestrogen as a form of hormone replacement therapy (HRT) either by pill, a gel, spray, or patch, or as an injection. The hope is that it will reduce body hair, stop or reverse male-pattern baldness, change where bodyfat is located to a less masculine distribution, and grow breasts. Other effects may include soften skin, smaller testes, a decrease in libido. It is not possible to know what the effects or extent of effects will be so it is not possible to pick and choose oestrogen’s effects. Risks may include:
  • blood clots
  • heart problems
  • discharge from the nipples
  • weight gain
  • type 2 diabetes
  • stroke
  • infertility (but oestrogen is not a form of birth control)
  • high blood pressure
  • high levels of triglycerides (a kind of fat), potassium, and the hormone prolactin in the blood
  • increased risk of breast cancer
See https://www.mayoclinic.org/tests-procedures/feminizing-hormone-therapy/about/pac-20385096.

Off-label use

Use of a medical treatment (such as drugs or a medical procedure) for a condition that is not indicated for this treatment, meaning that this treatment is not approved for use in this particular condition. This is because not enough research is done to show the treatment’s efficacy and safety for this condition, or because research has shown the treatment is not efficacious or safe enough for this condition. Off-label use is experimental use of drugs or a medical procedure.

Oli London

Internet personality. A British white male who has undergone plastic surgeries to look more like a Korean pop star. In 2022 he came out as a transgender woman, but this was short-lived as he detransitioned soon after. He wrote the book ‘Detransition – a memoir’.

OnlyFans

Online content subscription service mainly used by sex workers who create pornography.

Oppression Olympics

Wikipedia describes this in a very clear way: “Oppression Olympics is a characterization of marginalization as a competition to determine the relative weight of the overall oppression of individuals or groups, often by comparing race, gender, socioeconomic status or disabilities, in order to determine who is the worst off, and the most oppressed. The characterization often arises within debates about the ideological values of identity politics, intersectionality, and social privilege.” See https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oppression_Olympics .

Some people engage in this by broadcasting all of their perceived disadvantages on their social media profiles or by bringing them up in discussions or debates. Anyone who is an ethnic minority is seen as being oppressed vs others who are of the dominant ethnicity. Anyone who has a non-straight sexuality is seen as being oppressed vs others who have a straight sexuality. A trans identity ‘trumps’ not having a special gender identity. Having a mental illness trumps not having a mental illness. Having a physical disability trumps being able bodied, etc. Having multiple ‘disadvantages’ makes you more oppressed: a gay black male is more oppressed than a gay white male; a disabled person who identifies as trans is more oppressed than a disabled person who does not identify trans, etc. This ‘game’ of supposedly being the most oppressed is won by the person highest on the totem pole of oppression. However, it is not clearly defined who this is when people with an equal number but different perceived disadvantages ‘compete’: Is a religious-minority gay black male more or less oppressed than a trans-identifying disabled white female?

Orchidectomy (orchiectomy, ‘orchie’)

A kind of bottom surgery for males which involves removal of both testicles. When the gonads (in this case, testes) are removed, the person will have to take hormones for the rest of his life because his body can no longer make enough of its own sex hormones and he will be infertile. The scrotum may or may not be removed. If the patient may want SRS in the future, the scrotum is best left in place to use during SRS to create the ‘labia’.

Outing

Packer

A prosthetic penis worn by some TiFs to create a bulge in their underwear. Some of these packers can be used to stand to pee (STP), others are just decorative. Small packers for children are being sold online too.

Paedophilia

A disorder where the person has a preference for sexual activity with a prepubescent child. In most countries it is illegal to act upon this because of the inability of minors to consent to sexual activity (with adults) and the harm such sexual activity does to children.

Pansexual

A sexuality in which someone is attracted to people regardless of their sex or gender identity. It is not clear how this differs from bisexual although it may explicitly mean that the person is also attracted to trans-identifying people.

Paraphilias

Paraphilic infantilism

Also called adult baby syndrome. A sexual fetish that involves role-playing as a baby/young child. Sometimes combined with crossdressing.

Passing

The act of presenting as the opposite sex so convincingly that other people will not notice that the trans-identifying person is not the sex that they appear to be. Some trans-identifying people may never pass whereas others may sometimes pass or may pass in certain clothes or certain situations but not in others. For instance, they may pass when on the phone but when another person sees them, that person will notice (‘clock’) the trans-identifying person is of the sex opposite of that which they are trying to convey.

Peak trans

Peer-review

Part of the process of scientific enquiry. When a researcher or research group has written down their research findings, they will send their manuscript to a journal for publication. Before an article is accepted for publication it is sent for peer review, which means that several scientists who are also experts on the research topic but who were not involved in the research nor work in the same research group or department as the authors are asked to critically review the manuscript. These reviewers may suggest the manuscript is not suitable for publication or they may suggest ways the manuscript can be improved so it can be published once these improvements have been made.

Penectomy

Penile-preserving vaginoplasty

A kind of bottom surgery for males that is the same as a vaginoplasty but with the difference being that the penis is preserved, meaning penile-inversion vaginoplasty is not an option.

PFLAG

Phalloplasty (‘phallo’)

Also called ‘bottom surgery’ for TiFs. This surgical process aims to create something that looks like a penis and scrotum out of female body parts using the female genitalia for the scrotum, and uses another donor site on the body to harvest a full-thickness skin graft to create the ‘neophallus’ (a skin roll attached to the groin):

  • Radial forearm free flap (RFF) phalloplasty uses tissue of one of the forearms leaving a big hole on the forearm. 

  • Anterolateral thigh flap (ALT) phalloplasty uses tissue of one of the thighs leaving a big hole on the thigh. 

  • Musculocutaneous latissimus dorsi flap (MLD) phalloplasty uses tissue from the back leaving a big hole on the back area. 

  • Abdominal (‘abdo’) phalloplasty uses tissue flaps from the abdominal area that are flipped around and stitched together to close the hole created by removing this tissue. 

  • Single-scar phalloplasty (SSP) uses a skin expander on the thigh that needs to be regularly filled to create excess skin. This extra thigh tissue is then used to create the neophallus. The patient is left with a line scar only as opposed to a big hole at the donor site. 

  • Superficial circumflex iliac artery perforator (SCIP) flap phalloplasty uses skin and tissues in the waist area to create the neophallus, leaving a single scar. 

  • Gracilis muscle flap phalloplasty uses the gracilis muscle (located on the inside of your upper legs) to help build the neophallus in an effort to prevent fistulas from forming. Other donor tissue may also be used. 

The neourethra will be created from another full-thickness skin graft that is taken from, for instance, the forearm, or may be created from a buccal graft (the inside of the mouth), the labia minora, or the vagina. The clitoris can be buried underneath the skin at the base of the neophallus or left exposed on the outside of the body.

When using one of the techniques that leave a big hole at the donor site, this hole will need to be covered with a split-thickness skin graft from another part of the body. Such a graft only takes a thin layer of shaved skin from the donor site for this graft, leaving a relatively faint scar once healed.

Testicular implants can be inserted into the ‘neoscrotum’. Of course, these are cosmetic only as they will not create sperm.

It is possible to have some kind of erectile functionality in the neophallus by getting a penile implant. There are three types of implants:

  • A non-inflatable, semi-rigid implant that can be either malleable or non-malleable. This provides some rigidity to the neophallus but there is no option to go from ‘flaccid’ to ‘erect’: the neophallus will only have one rigidity state and can be bent up or down to create an ‘erection’. 

  • A 2-piece inflatable implant. 

  • A 3-piece inflatable implant. 

The inflatable implants are composed of cylinders, a pump, a reservoir, and a control toggle. This makes it possible to alternate between a ‘flaccid’ and an ‘erect’ state. These implants are at a higher risk of malfunction and may need to be replaced several times over the course of someone’s life.

There are risks associated with a penile implant, such as erosion of the implant through the penile tissues (when parts of the implant make a hole in the skin through constant pushing onto the skin; once the skin is broken, there is a risk of infection). The cylinders may also come lose from the rest of the implant meaning a surgery is needed to try to put them back or replace the whole implant.

These surgeries are not like typical cosmetic surgeries in that they are experimental and aim to add a function that the patient never had (meaning these procedures done in females are not reconstructive (a phrase that is sometimes used): you can’t reconstruct something that was never there and never meant to be there in the first place).

For a longer description including photos of some phalloplasty procedures, see https://tau.amegroups.org/article/view/26419/24265 ('Phalloplasty: techniques and outcomes', by Aaron L. Heston et al. in Vol 8, No 3 (June 27, 2019) of Translational Andrology and Urology).

Phallus/Phallo

Also called neophallus. A ‘penis’ created from tissue harvested from one of various areas of the body.

Planned Parenthood

Plastic surgeon

Plastic surgery is the branch of surgery that aims to restore function and appearance (after injury, illness, etc). This is different from cosmetic surgery, which refers to surgery for the sole purpose of the patient achieving a more desirable look.

Post-op

Pre-op

Precocious puberty

When puberty beings too early in a child, at an age that is inappropriate (before age 8 in girls and age 9 in boys). This is a medical condition and has nothing to do with transgenderism. Puberty-blocking drugs may be prescribed to children with precocious puberty but this is not without risks.

Preferred pronouns

The pronouns that a trans-identifying person may request or demand others to use when referring to them, not only in their presence but also in their absence. This is generally the pronouns used for the opposite sex but may also be newly-invented words. Also see Pronouns and Neopronouns.

Progesterone

A hormone important for females. It is produced mainly in the ovaries and plays a role in menstruation and pregnancy. It is sometimes prescribed to TiMs hoping it will act as an anti-androgen and help with breast growth but it is not well know what it does in males as the action of this drug has only been studied in females. See https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC9160650/ .

Pronouns

Words that are used instead of a noun or a noun phrase. In English, these are: she/her for females and he/him for males. They/them is used for groups of people and for a single person provided the sex of that person is not known or the person can be of either sex. In English, they/them has not been used for a single person whose sex is known for a long time.

Puberty blockers

Queer

A catch-all term for people who have a non-straight sexuality and/or identify as trans in one way or another. Used to be seen as a slur but has since been reclaimed.

Queer theory

Wikipedia describes this clearly: “Queer theory is a field of post-structuralism that emerged in the early 1990s out of queer studies (often, formerly, gay and lesbian studies) and women's studies.[1] The term can have various meanings depending upon its usage, but has broadly been associated with the study and theorisation of gender and sexual practices that exist outside of heterosexuality, and which challenge the notion that heterosexual desire is ‘normal’.” See https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Queer_theory

Questioning

Randomised controlled trial

A kind of clinical trial. It is considered the gold standard in medical research because the way it is set up reduces bias. In such trials, a group of carefully selected participants are randomly allocated to the comparator (control; could mean placebo or currently-available best treatment) arm or the intervention (new treatment) arm.

Rapid-onset gender dysphoria (ROGD)

The perceived sudden onset of gender dysphoria in an adolescent or young adult, possibly influenced by factors such as the person’s ‘in real life’ peer group and/or through interaction with others online, as observed by parents. See Dr Lisa Littman’s website: https://littmanresearch.com/ and her publication in the scientific journal PLOS ONE : https://doi.org/10.1371/journal.pone.0214157 .

Real-life test (real-life experience)

The trial period of social transition (living ‘as’ the opposite sex fulltime) before medical transition to see if this is what a trans-identifying person really wants. This used to be a requirement before a doctor would prescribe drugs or surgeries as part of medical transition. In the current day, such a test does not seem to be required in many places and some people choose to be on drugs as part of medical transition for a while before they intend to socially transition.

Red Pill

The red pill and blue pill language stems from the 1999 movie The Matrix in which the protagonist had a choice between a red and a blue pill. Taking the red pill would make him wake up to the film’s true reality whereas taking the blue pill would make him wake up to his regular life, unaware that this life is a simulation.

‘The Red Pill’ is an online movement by men who feel they are now awake to the (perceived) reality that as men they don’t have systemic power or privilege (these men are ‘redpilled’), as opposed to ‘blue-pilled normies’ who believe the mainstream narrative that males automatically have privilege over females. ‘The black pill’ refers to beliefs held by people in the incel community such as biological determinism, fatalism, and defeatism for unattractive people. See: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Incel#%22Red_pill%22_and_%22black_pill%22

Reddit

Social news aggregation, content rating and discussion website. ‘Groups’ revolving around a specific interest have their own area of the site called a ‘subreddit’ or ‘sub’. Trans-identifying people are very active on this platform, and you can find many ‘subs’ for trans-related topics. Amongst all other topics of interest, there are many subs where people post/share pornography.

Renée Richards

TiM tennis player who was barred from competing in the US Open in the women’s but sued and won.

ReSisters

International group composed of women of all walks of life who aim to uphold and further rights of women in the UK and Ireland.

Retransition

The second or subsequent gender transition. For instance, a male ‘transitions’ to another gender identity, then detransitions back to male/man, but later retransitions to a gender identity that is not male/man.

Reverse dysphoria

The feeling of gender dysphoria one supposedly gets if they transition but are not ‘actually trans’. For example, a female who is not ‘genuinely trans’ socially transitions and takes hormones to transition to ‘transman’ but feels dysphoria from the virilising changes to her body from the testosterone.

Review (literature review)

Type of scientific publication. A narrative review is written without a defined or stringent methodology. As a consequence, such a review may show bias towards the information that is being included and excluded and the conclusions drawn. A systematic literature review follows a stringent methodology that will be explained in the publication to create an objective overview/review of the current state of the art.

Revision

Usually used to refer to surgical revision. This refers to additional surgery to try to correct a complication or an issue arising from an earlier surgery. It is common for TiMs who have had vaginoplasty to choose a revision surgery once they have healed from the first surgery to improve aesthetics (the look of the vulva). Revisions may be needed/wanted after any of the transgender surgeries.

Rib removal

RuPaul

Rupaul Andre Charles, a famous American drag queen going by the name RuPaul. He is known for his TV show RuPaul’s Drag Race.

Salmacian

An altersex identity for people who wish to have a mixed genital set, generally refers to wanting to have both a vagina and a penis. According to the description on the subreddit for this community, both trans-identifying people and people who do not identify as trans (‘cis’ people) can be Salmacian.

Self ID

Self-identification (self ID) in relation to legal sex. The act of being able to identify as the opposite sex, legally, without needing therapist letters or undergoing/having undergone medical treatment as part of transition. TRAs generally advocate for self ID, even in the face of the obvious safety and safeguarding issues this would cause, mainly for females and children.

Sex

Sometimes called ‘biological sex’ or ‘natal sex’. The condition of being either female or male. In humans, this is an immutable (unchangeable) characteristic.

‘Sex assigned at birth’

Misnomer. This term is used by TRAs to refer to the sex of a person, which according to them is ‘assigned’ at birth. This phrasing suggests that there is no objective basis or rationale for this. However, sex is observed and recorded at birth (and sometimes earlier, on an ultrasound) based on the appearance of the baby’s external genitalia. There is no assignment: there is an observation that is being recorded. The term 'sex assigned at birth' only makes sense when used to refer to someone with a disorder of sexual development (DSD) who has ambiguous genitalia and where the doctors could not tell with 100% confidence what the sex of the person is.

Sex-based right

Rights awarded to people based on their sex. For instance, the rights of females to have access to female-only spaces. This right is based on being female. Males have the right to male-only spaces. Males don’t have the right to female-only spaces because they are not female, and vice versa.

‘Sex is a spectrum’

A scientifically-inaccurate statement about the nature of sex in humans. This statement suggests that there are more than two sexes, possibly even as many a there are people on earth or that there is some gradient of sex between female and male. However, that is not the case. In humans there are only two sexes: female and male. People who have a disorder of sexual development (who have an intersex condition) are still either female or male.

Sex reassignment surgery (SRS)

Surgery on the genitals that involves rearranging the existing genital tissues (and sometimes other parts of the body) in such a way that the genitals no longer look like they are of the sex of the patient and resemble, cosmetically, the genitals of the opposite sex. For females the typical options are metoidioplasty and phalloplasty and generally includes a hysterectomy (removal of the uterus) and vaginectomy (removal/closure of the vaginal canal). For males, the main options are orchidectomy (removal of the testes), vulvoplasty (creation of a vulva), and vaginoplasty (creation of a vulva and a canal, with various techniques to choose from).

Sexual fetishism

A form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc.

Sex stereotypes

The preconceived ideas about how someone should be, act, or behave based on that person’s sex. For instance, the idea that females are more emotionally sensitive, passive, and more caring and that males are more aggressive, strong, and better at leadership.

Sexual dimorphism

When sexes of the same species of animal or plant show different morphological (structure and form) characteristics, especially in characteristics not directly related to reproduction. Humans are a sexually dimorphic species. Examples of this in humans are differences in body hair and differences in fat distribution.

Sexual orientation/sexuality

Sharron Davies

English former Olympic swimmer who has spoken out against TiMs competing in female sports. For this, she has faced backlash from TRAs.

Shenis

Slang term used by some TiMs to refer to their penis.

Dr Sidhbh Gallagher

Irish plastic surgeon working in the USA who heavily promotes surgery as part of medical transition on her social media pages (such as on the TikTok platform). She made it into mainstream media outlets at the end of 2022 when a patient of her spoke out about how she almost died from complications following a double mastectomy (that she had for cosmetic reasons) and describing how all of her concerns after surgery were ignored or downplayed by Dr Gallagher and her team. This patient was obese and went to Dr Gallagher because her BMI was too high for many other surgeons to be willing to perform this cosmetic surgery on her.

Sissy

Slur for males who do not show stereotypically masculine traits. Also used for males who dress up in stereotypically effeminate clothing for sexual pleasure.

Sissy hypno

Short sexual videos where images of attractive women are interspersed with images of erect/ejaculating male genitals and slogans to encourage the viewer to be sexually interested in males and serve these males sexually.

Sissification

Standards of Care (SOC)

Standards of Care (SOC) is a document released by WPATH at an irregular interval. In 2022, SOC 8 was released. According to WPATH: “The overall goal of the SOC is to provide clinical guidance for health professionals to assist transsexual, transgender, and gender nonconforming people with safe and effective pathways to achieving lasting personal comfort with their gendered selves, in order to maximize their overall health, psychological well-being, and self-fulfillment.” See: https://www.wpath.org/publications/soc .

Stefonknee Wolscht

Middle-aged male (father of seven children) who made it into the media because he identifies as a woman and then went on to identify as a six year old girl and appeared in various media outlets to talk about his kink. Many other outlets have written about his story. He is roleplaying as a little girl and has a 'father' and 'mother' that roleplay with him. This fetish ruined his marriage and has negatively affected his relationship with his children and others around him.

Stonewall

UK LGBTQ+ rights charity that runs the ‘Diversity Champions programme’ for employers. In 2021, there has been a debate about this program following accusations of the charity stifling free speech and pushing employers to adopt policies that could negatively affect women. Consequently, several high-profile employers have ended their partnership with Stonewall.

Social media

Online media that facilitate the creation and sharing of all manner of information and ideas.

Social transition

The aspect of transition that does not include medical changes to the body. This usually includes going by a different name than the person’s birth name (the birth name is called someone’s deadname), changing the way they present themselves (fashion, hair, accessories), and using the pronouns that are used for the other sex.

SSSS (quad-S)

The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality is “dedicated to advancing knowledge of sexuality and communicating scientifically based sexuality research and scholarship to professionals, policy makers, and the general public.”

Statistics

From Wikipedia: “Statistics is the discipline that concerns the collection, organization, analysis, interpretation, and presentation of data.”

Stealth

The situation in which a trans-identifying person is trying to live without outing themselves, i.e., they are not open about their trans status. They may not be out to anyone currently in their life, or they may be out to the people closest to them such as their partner and close friends but choose to keep their trans status hidden from people less close to them such as acquaintances and co-workers. Some people aim to not tell anyone, not even people they intend on dating or having sex with. In some regions, not disclosing your trans identity to someone you have sex with is classified as rape by deception, which is a crime.

STP

Subreddit (‘sub’)

Super straight

The term ‘super straight’ was coined by a young man in a TikTok (short video clip) in which he states he is only attracted to girls/women who are female, meaning that his sexuality does not include any males irrespective of a male’s identity. This term got a life of its own as others claimed to be super gay, super lesbian, or super bi. This got backlash from trans-identifying people as in their eyes, it is transphobic to be a straight man who does not want to date a TiM (or for a lesbian to not want to date a TiM), etc. Few people use ‘super …’ to seriously describe their sexuality, but the origin of this term is possibly a direct consequence of trans-identifying people trying to pressure others into dating/having sex with them. According to trans ideology: “You are a straight man, and I am a transwoman, and transwomen are women, so you should date me.” But for many if not most people, their sexuality does not work like this.

T4T

Term used by people trying to find other people, generally in a dating/sexual context. It means ‘trans for trans’, i.e., a trans-identifying person looking for another trans-identifying person. Sometimes also used when looking for a carer to help recover from gender-related surgeries.

T dick

A clitoris that has grown in length and/or circumference through use of testosterone. Growth can be 15 cm (0.5”2”) and the process of growth may be painful or uncomfortable. Also called ‘bottom growth’. Considered to be an irreversible change. This ‘T dick’ is used in the process of metoidioplasty, a type of bottom surgery for females.

Tanner scale

Trans-exclusionary radical feminist (TERF)

Used as a slur to brand anyone (but mainly women) who does not fully support transgender ideology whether that person is a feminist or is radical. ‘TERFs’ themselves generally prefer to be called gender critical.

Testosterone

The male sex hormone produced in the testes and produced to a lesser extent in the ovaries of females. Testosterone (or ‘T’) is the cross-sex hormone prescribed to minor and adult females who want to ‘transition’ to ‘male’. It is a powerful drug also used by some athletes and bodybuilders to enhance athletic performance and body building capabilities. Testosterone use is banned from sporting competitions because it gives people an unfair competitive advantage over people not using this performance-enhancing drug.

Testosterone use in females can have the following effects and side effects:

  • Skin will thicken and become more oily, pores will become larger 

  • Increased sweating 

  • Change in odour of sweat and urine 

  • Acne 

  • Increase in body hair and in thickness of the hair, facial hair growth, and possibility of male-pattern baldness or complete hair loss 

  • Redistribution of bodyfat away from thighs and hips and towards the belly; fat in your face will distribute differently, somewhat changing your facial features 

  • Increase muscle definition and increase in muscle mass depending on exercise 

  • Veins become more prominent 

  • Voice will lower due to thickening of the vocal cords 

  • Vaginal atrophy similar to post-menopausal women (dryness, irritation, bleeding during penetration) 

  • Loss of menstrual period (but testosterone is not a form of birth control) 

  • Weight gain 

  • High blood pressure 

  • Increase in cholesterol (possibly increasing risk of heart problems) 

  • Sleep apnoea 

  • Type 2 diabetes 

  • Pelvic pain 

  • Infertility (but testosterone is not a form of birth control) 

  • (Painful) growth of the clitoris 

  • Blood clots 

  • Producing too many red blood cells (polycythaemia) 

It is not possible to pick and choose which effects a female will experience. Some females use a relatively low dose (‘microdosing’) in an effort to prevent too much virilisation (virilisation is the process in which a female develops characteristics associated with male hormones) but that is not a guarantee for preventing a full beard or male-pattern baldness, for instance.

Testosterone can be administered in different ways. A common way is injection but there are also ‘pellets’ (a small implants placed under the skin), a patch that is stuck onto the skin, oral capsules, and gel. Use of testosterone gel can be harmful to people around the user as the gel can rub off on others (called secondary exposure; the drug can affect people of all ages, including children of any age, and can cause premature puberty and genital enlargement in children).

The FDA has only approved testosterone products “for use in men who lack or have low testosterone levels in conjunction with an associated medical condition.” The use of testosterone by females is thus experimental.

Tgirl (t-girl)

A TiM. This term is mainly used by and for adults despite having the word ‘girl’ in it.

TikTok

A social media platform for short-form video hosting. Users can post their own short videos and/or browse and react to videos created by others.

Toe shortening surgery

Tomboy

A girl (a female minor) who doesn’t adhere to sex stereotypes for females.

Top surgery

Tracheal shave

Trancel

Trans incel (involuntarily celibate).

Tranny

Used to refer to people who have transitioned in one way or another. Seen by most people as a slur.

Transbian

A TiM who is attracted to females. A straight male who sees himself as a lesbian.

Transboy (trans boy)

Transbucket

Online platform to share transgender surgery results/experiences. The site was taken offline in 2022 by the owners but came back towards the end of that year.

Transhausen-by-proxy/Trannyhausen-by-proxy

An unofficial term used to refer to a parent who is confused about their own gender or has an emotional agenda of their own and uses their child in their trans activities, to the detriment of the child, whilst claiming the child’s trans identity is coming from the child themselves.

Trans-identifying female (TiF)

A female who identifies as transgender/as a man or as a male. A ‘transman’ or ‘transboy’. May also include females who identify as non-binary but they will generally not describe themselves as ‘transman’ or male.

Trans-identifying male (TiM)

A male who identifies as transgender/as a woman or as a female. A ‘transwoman’ or ‘transgirl’. May also include males who identify as non-binary but they will generally not describe themselves as ‘transwoman’ or female.

Trans

Trans day of remembrance (TDOR)

International transgender day of remembrance takes place on November 20. This is to memorialise trans-identifying people who have been murdered solely for them having this identity and to draw attention to violence against this demographic.

Trans day of visibility (TDOV)

International transgender day of visibility takes place on March 31 to celebrate trans-identifying people and their contributions to society, and to raise awareness of discrimination these people may face.

Transgender

An umbrella term that appears to encompass anyone who does not identify as cisgender. Trans(gender) is an identity that people choose for themselves. Some people who choose this identity experience gender dysphoria, a mental health condition, whereas others who choose this identity do not experience gender dysphoria.

Transgenderism/transgender ideology

Transgenderism, transgender ideology, or trans ideology is the worldview that asserts that humans have a gender and that in some people, this gender does not align with the person’s physical sex (despite sex and gender supposedly being two different things).

Transgirl (trans girl)

Trans feminine (trans femme)

A word used to describe TiMs; males who do not identify as a man and who may identify as a woman.

Trans masculine (trans masc)

A word used to describe TiFs; females who do not identify as a woman and who may identify as a man.

Transmaxxing

The act of a male choosing a trans identity not because he ‘feels’ like a girl/woman but because he is sexually frustrated as an incel and thinks presenting as a TiM will improve his dating prospects and his life overall.

Transition

Trans joy

Transman (trans man)

A trans-identifying female (TiF). Also: ‘man of trans experience’.

Transmedicalism (transmedicalist)

Transperbole

A merging of the words ‘trans’ and ‘hyperbole’. Refers to the hyperbolic language often used by TRAs when they are trying to advocate for their cause, such as claiming trans-identified people are at a high risk of murder.

Transracial

Trans rights activist (TRA)

Activists, generally trans-identifying people but also their allies, who try to advance what they perceive to be rights for trans-identifying people. This could mean anything from males being allowed to enter sports competition in the female division to males being allowed in female-only toilets, prisons, or domestic-violence shelters to males being accepted for women-only shortlists and prizes. It can also mean advocacy for any and all desired medical treatments for trans-identifying people to be covered by state healthcare or private healthcare insurance, or demanding representation of trans-identifying people in areas such as politics and media. Other areas of activism are administrative, in demanding that people can self-identify (self ID) legally, meaning that people can legally change their sex without the requirement for therapist letters or having undergone medical treatment as part of transition. The call for females to use male-only spaces is much less loud possibly because fewer TiFs feel entitled to male-only spaces and/or fewer TiFs want to use these spaces. It is also possible that TiFs who do use male spaces pass more often and/or are not causing any trouble and are thus not commonly seen as a problem. Finally, male violence is a threat to everyone, in particular to females, whereas female violence isn’t the same kind of issue nor of anywhere near the same magnitude.

Transsexual

Someone who feels their gender identity does not match their sex (experiencing gender dysphoria) and who transitions socially and medically. This now seems to be an outdated term and ‘transgender’ is used more commonly. Some people still use this term to describe themselves, generally when they feel that they are a ‘real’ trans person because of experiencing gender dysphoria and for having undergone all of the medical treatments including SRS.

Transtrender

Term used by ‘real’ trans-identifying people for others who identify as trans for reasons other than being ‘true trans’ (i.e., experiencing gender dysphoria), such as for attention, for social brownie points, for fun, because they think it will make them more popular or ‘cool’, etc.

Trans widow

The (ex) partner (usually a woman) of a trans-identifying person (usually a TiM).

Transwoman (trans woman)

A trans-identifying male (TiM). Also: ‘woman of trans experience’.

Trans tape

Transcel

Transphobia

Transphobia/transphobic is used to refer to ideas, attitudes, policies or people that TRAs consider to not be fully supportive of transgender ideology. For instance, not wanting to date someone who identifies as trans is considered transphobic by some. A school policy that does not allow any males into female-only spaces (such as toilets and changing rooms) is considered transphobic by some, because it excludes ‘transgirls’ from the toilets and changing rooms they want to use and they feel entitled to use.

Transvestic fetishism

Transvestite (TV)

Trap

Slang term for a male who is not transgender but who cross-dresses because he gets turned on when straight men mistake him for a woman and fall in love with him.

Triggered

Truscum

Tucking

When a male tries to reduce his genital bulge to achieve a flat front. The testicles can be pushed into the inguinal canals and the penis can be pushed into the crotch region, using tape to fix it all into place. This can be painful and cause build-up of sweat and body odour. It is also possible to damage the skin, and tucking can make it time-consuming to use the toilet as the tuck will have to be undone to urinate. Alternatively, tighter underwear (a ‘gaff’; compression underwear) can be used to flatten the male genitals.

Tucute

Internet slang for a person who believes that gender dysphoria is not an essential trait to being transgender (from ‘too cute to be cisgender’).

Tumblr

A microblogging and social networking platform. Amongst all the other content, pornography was also shared and easily accessible. Tumblr stopped allowing pornography in 2018 but erotic material is still being shared.

Two-spirit (2S)

Used by some indigenous North Americans to describe native people in their communities who fulfil a traditional third-gender ceremonial and social role.

Urologist

Vaginectomy

Surgery that removes all or part of the vagina. This requires a hysterectomy (removal of the womb/uterus) which may be done as a separate surgery before vaginectomy.

Vaginoplasty

A kind of bottom surgery for TiMs that includes removal of the penis and testes and aims to create a canal (called a neovagina) inside a hole created in the perineum and pelvic area with the aim of making penetrative sex in that canal possible. Part of the glans of the penis is used to create the ‘neoclitoris’ and the scrotum is used to create the ‘labia’ and sometimes also for part of the canal. Different tissues can be used to create the canal:

  • In penile-inversion vaginoplasty (PIV) the skin of the penis is used to create the canal. 

  • In peritoneal pull-through (PPT) vaginoplasty, peritoneum (lining of the abdominal wall) is used to create the canal. 

  • Tunica vaginalis (tissue that sits around the testes) can be used to create the canal. 

  • A part of the sigmoid colon can be used to create the canal in a technique called intestinal vaginoplasty. 

A less common form of this surgery is penile-preservation vaginoplasty (PPV). The penis is left alone whilst other tissues are used to create a canal in the perineum. This can include removal of the testes and using the scrotum to create ‘labia’. Alternatively, the testicles and scrotum are left intact, and the patient only has a canal in the perineum without any ‘labia’.

When someone has undergone this surgery, they will need to dilate to prevent the canal from closing up. This means that the person will need to use hard plastic/glass dildos to keep the canal from closing up in several sessions a day in the first weeks/months after surgery. The frequency of dilation can usually be reduced to a couple of times a week once the person has healed.

When the gonads (in this case, testes) are removed, the person will have to take hormones for the rest of their life because their body can no longer make enough of its own sex hormones. The patient is also infertile after the testes are removed.

This surgery creates a canal that ends in a dead end: there will not be a cervix or uterus. Uterus transplants are experimental in females and even more experimental in males. This is not something offered currently or likely ever as a uterus transplant is for the purpose of pregnancy. This would involve a foetus who did not consent to being part of a medical experiment.

These surgeries are not like typical cosmetic surgeries in that they are experimental and aim to add a function that the patient never had, meaning these procedures done in males are not reconstructive (a phrase that is sometimes used): you can’t reconstruct something that was never there and never meant to be there in the first place. This also applies to the TiF genital surgeries.

Valid

An adjective often used with ‘argument’, meaning that the argument has a sound basis in logic or fact, is reasonable, or cogent. However, TRAs use this word a lot to refer to people’s identity being ‘valid’, to mean: a real thing, or: legitimate, even when not being rooted in logic or fact.

Dr Veronica Ivy/Rachel McKinnon

TiM competitive cyclist and TRA who competed in the women’s and won first place. He has a PhD in philosophy, not in a medical or natural science, yet this does not stop him from commenting on the physiology of humans. He denies the link between testosterone and athletic performance. He also misrepresents data to fit his narrative that males do not have an unfair competitive advantage over females.

Virtue signalling

The expression of a moral viewpoint with the intent of communicating good character.

Vocal feminisation surgery (VFS)

Vulvoplasty (zero-depth vaginoplasty)

A kind of bottom surgery for TiMs that involves removal of the penis, scrotum, and testes and aims to create a vulva. No canal is created, so penetration is not possible. This also means dilation is not possible and thus not required. A canal can be added in a later surgery although penile-inversion vaginoplasty will not be possible then as the penis was removed in the first surgery.

Watchful waiting

An approach in healthcare in which a patient is closely watched but no treatment is given unless symptoms appear or change. This approach has been applied to people who seek help for gender dysphoria: they are not undergoing transition, but they are followed over time to see how they are doing. In most of these people, the gender dysphoria resolved over time.

Wi Spa

A Korean spa in Los Angeles (CA, USA) involved in a controversy when they allowed a TiM (a male with a penis, allegedly a middle-aged man going by the name Darren Agee Merager) into the female-only facilities where he allegedly exposed himself to girls and women. Women complained about this to the spa staff, with one of these women recording the exchange. This video was spread online via social media. Darren Agee Merager is a registered sex offender and has previous convictions for indecent exposure.

Woke

Woman

Womanface

The term used by some gender-critical people to refer to drag queens. In their eyes, drag queens wear womanface, like some white people wore blackface: both are an offensive caricature of people based on a protected characteristic (sex, race).

WPATH (World Professional Association for Transgender Health)

Formerly the Harry Benjamin International Gender Dysphoria Association (HBIGDA). This organisation releases Standards of Care (SoC) documentation for transgender health.

Wrong-sex hormones

Yaoi

Yeeting

To yeet. A slang term referring to the act of throwing something with a lot of force. Also used metaphorically by some trans-identifying people when they talk about getting their breasts removed: ‘yeeting the teets’.

YouTube

Video-sharing social media platform. Pornography is not allowed but content about (niche) sexuality is easily found.

*** MINI MEDICAL DICTIONARY ***

All medical treatments and procedures can have unintended effects/side effects. It might be difficult to fully understand what some medical terms mean and how experiencing such a complication might affect your health, especially if you are young and/or have never had to deal with health issues before. For this reason I am including a small, basic dictionary of medical complications. Not all people will experience complications, and some complications are (very) rare, but as some of these rare complications can have devastating consequence for someone's body and their life, it is vital that people understand what they are choosing to risk when they undergo cosmetic interventions (drugs, surgery). Always read all information provided to you and ask your endocrinologist or surgeon all your questions before you start taking hormones/blockers or undergoing a procedure!

You can find a lot of first-person accounts of medical transition (use of drugs and cosmetic surgeries) on YouTube, in Reddit communities, (closed) Facebook groups, and sometimes in news articles.

Blood clot
Blood can form clots during/after surgery. These can cause problems when they get stuck in an artery and prevent blood from reaching certain tissues or organs (such as in the case of a pulmonary embolism, where a blood clot blocks blood flow to a lung, or in an ischaemic stroke where a blood clot blocks bloodflow to the brain) or when they prevent blood from flowing back to the heart (such as in deep vein thrombosis). It is possible to lose a limb to a blood clot. You can have permanent brain damage from an ischaemic stroke (caused by a blood clot). It is also possible to die from a blood clot that is not treated in time.

Blood loss
Losing blood is a risk for any surgery. When too much blood is lost the patient may need to receive a blood transfusion (where blood from other people is given to the patient to replace the blood the patient lost).

Bone health
Bone development takes place throughout childhood and puberty is one of the periods of rapid bone growth and mineralisation. Sex hormones are essential for bone maturation during puberty (see
https://www.frontiersin.org/articles/10.3389/fendo.2022.967711/full). Use of puberty blockers (gonadotropin-releasing hormone (GnRH) analogues (GnRHa)) or progestins to block the body's own production of sex hormones can affect bone development and increase the risk for osteoporosis later in life (see https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC9150228/). A review from 2022 states: "Results consistently indicate a negative impact of long-term puberty suppression on bone mineral density, especially at the lumbar spine, which is only partially restored after sex steroid administration." (see https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC9578106/). The NY Times dedicated an article to puberty blockers used in transgenderism and shared an anecdote about a Texas teenager who had very low bone density in the lumbar spine (the lower back) after a year on puberty blockers. No scan was performed at baseline (before the treatment) so it is possible this child had a low value to begin with, but because no scan was performed before use of the blockers, they will never know. The story of another teenager was also included. This teen took drugs from age 11 to 14 and no scans were performed until the last year of treatment. This patient developed osteoporosis and experienced a compression fracture in the spine with continued back pain as a consequence of this permanent disability caused by puberty blockers (see https://www.nytimes.com/2022/11/14/health/puberty-blockers-transgender.html).

Breast implant illness (BII)
This is a systemic complication associated with breast implants. Signs and symptoms can include joint and muscle pain, chronic fatigue, breathing problems, anxiety, depression, headaches, hairloss, memory and concentration problems. Women who have silicone gel-filled implants were more likely to be diagnosed with auto immune conditions such as Sjogren syndrome, scleroderma, or rheumatoid arthritis. Find more information here: https://www.breastcancer.org/treatment/surgery/breast-reconstruction/types/implant-reconstruction/illness/breast-implant-illness.

Catheter
A suprapubic (SP) catheter is inserted into the bladder through a hole made into the abdomen (belly); a Foley catheter is inserted through the urethra (the tube that transports urine from your bladder to the outside of your body) and held in place in the bladder by a water-filled balloon. Depending on the type of genital surgery and whether you have complications, you may only need a catheter for a few days or in extreme cases for months at a time.

Colostomy, ileostomy, urostomy
An ostomy is surgery to create an opening (stoma) from an area inside the body to the outside. This is done when there are issues with the tissue further down so the damaged area is avoided by funelling the body fluid out of the body before the problem area.

A colostomy is an opening from the colon (large intestine) to the outside through the abdomen (belly). A colostomy bag is then attached to catch the fecal matter (poop, stool). This bag needs to be emptied/replaced several times a day to every couple of days depending on the type of bag and consistency of stool. You may need a colostomy for a shorter period of time or for the rest of your life depending on what the reasons are. A temporary colostomy may be needed after colon surgery to remove cancer, for instance. You may end up with a permanent colostomy if a certain part of the colon had to be removed or permanently rested, or if you can not undergo more surgery due to other health problems. Information on living with a colostomy: https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/colostomy/living-with/.

An ileostomy is an opening from the small intestine to the outside through the abdomen (belly). This is performed when the colon needs to be removed of rested after surgery or treatment. A stoma bag is then attached to catch the fecal matter (poop, stool). This bag needs to be emptied/replaced. Information on ileostomy: https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/ileostomy/.

A urostomy is performed when someone's bladder is removed or urine can't pass through the bladder and urethra (for instance due to damage to the urethra after surgery). The procedure creates a stoma for the urinary system by using a bit of intestine. Also called an 'ileal cinduit urinary diversion'. The urine is collected in a pouch on the outside of the body.

Death
Every surgery comes with the risk of death either from the anaesthesia or the procedure itself, but usually death is a very rare surgical outcome. Certain factors may increase the risk of death from the surgery, such as in emergency operations, when the patient is of an older age, or when the patient undergoes a major procedure. See https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/24021395/ for information in mortality (death) risk in various surgeries.

Death is a possible consequence of genital surgery for gender reasons, as described in a case study on an 18-year-old male who underwent vaginoplasty, who died from the results of an E. coli infection, see https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1083318816301747.

Dilating difficulties
Dilation is the process of using hard dildos to keep open the neovaginal canal/tunnel. This is required after vaginoplasty surgery to ensure the canal does not heal shut or shrink in length or width. It is possible to experience a lot of pain during dilation. A YouTuber ('Adea') who had vaginoplasty explained how he was in so much pain he was sweating and nearly passed out from dilation. Other people may experience less pain or even no pain but this might be due to nerve damage. This could result in them being rougher with their canal than is good for it, damaging the canal in the process (of dilation, or sex). It may also be impossible to dilate enough to not lose depth (length) or width because at some point you no longer have time to spend 4 hours a day on dilation and the cleanup. It may become impossible to dilate if the canal has gotten so shallow or narrow that the dilators are all too big, this can also make it hard to douche to clean out the canal. The result may be that the canal ends up with a pocket at the end that collects mucous, lube, body fluids (from sexual intercourse) and if it is not possible to douche well, this might result in infections and discomfort.

Diverticulum
Small sacs or pockets that can form in the (neo)urethra (urethral diverticulum) that fill up with urine. This may be accompanied by pain, frequent urinary tract infections, incontinence, or blood in your urine. This needs to be corrected with surgery.

A female who underwent phalloplasty genital surgery experienced a lot of complications including urethral diverticulum in her urethra. The diverticulum keeps filling and got infected so needed to be drained requiring her to wear a catheter again (see Exulansic's video 'Phalloplasty Philes: Your Own Portable Lake Lanier').

Embolism
This is when an artery is blocked by a foreign body such as a blood clot or air bubble. One cause of this is when a blood clot from the deep veins in your leg (deep vein thrombosis, DVT) breaks off and travels to another part of the body where it blocks blood flow. A pulmonary embolism is a blood clot like this that gets stuck in your lung artery where it blocks blood flow to your lungs. This is an emergency. See https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/embolism/. One patient who had phalloplasty genital surgery experienced a host of complications including bilateral pulmonary embolism (blood clots in both her lungs, but also her legs and pelvic area, she also had a urinary tract infection that developed into a kidney infection, it was bad; see Exulansic's video 'Phalloplasty Philes: Requiem for a Peen (Gruffin)).

A female reddit user describes how she underwent phalloplasty genital surgery and ended up with bilateral (on both sides) pulmonary embolisms with the beginning signs of tissue damage, at only 24 years old. She had to stay in the hospital for three additional weeks and ended up with a relatively short phallus at 3" in length 'on a good day' but the urethra hole at the top healed over so she needs another surgery to fix that (see Exulansic's video 'Phalloplasty Philes: The No-Eyed Trouser Snake').

Erosion or fracture of erectile device/implant
Some people who have undergone phalloplasty choose to have an inflatable erectile device implanted in the neophallus to imitate an erection. These devices are developed for males with erectile dysfunction so naturally their use in a surgically-created ‘penis’ will be experimental: a neophallus does not have the same anatomy as a penis. However, a new erectile device is being developed currently (in 2023) specifically for the neophallus. With the devices developed for males it is possible for the implant to erode out of the phallus, meaning that parts of the implant put pressure on the tissues and skin to the extent they are ‘working their way out’. This will need to be corrected in a surgery to prevent the skin from being broken and the parts of the device sliding out through the open wound (with the risks of infection that come with an open wound). One reddit user who posts on the phallo subreddit has seemingly had over 25 procedures related to her phalloplasty including several replacements/fixes of her inflatable erectile device, and this was all when she was in her late teens to early/mid 20s. As of July 2023 her phallus has failed after about 5-6 years since the first surgery because of a lot of internal scarring due to use of the erectile device, so the device had to be permanently removed leaving a short, creased neophallus. She is now considering a complete redo of her phalloplasty to try again... It is also possible to instead of an inflatable erectile device choose the semi-rigid rod implant (also called malleable penile prosthesis). This is a pair of rods that are implanted into the 'shaft' of the phallus and are anchored to the pubic bone. The implant is bent upwards for sex and downwards to be 'flaccid'. The rods themselves can fracture, although this appears to be rare, see https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4811081/.

Fistula
This is when an abnormal tunnel forms between two internal organs or an internal organ and the outside of the body. A fistula usually does not heal on its own and will usually require surgery to resolve. It is possible to have multiple fistulae at the same time. If one forms between your urethra (pee tube) and the outside of your body, you will leak urine from it when you pee. This is very common in women who choose phalloplasty with urethral lengthening. The result is that they will pee from one or multiple sites aside from the tip of their phallus, spraying urine everywhere. It is also possible for a fistula to form between the rectum or colon and the neovagina. The person may then leak faeces through the neovagina and/or get infections in the neovagina because poop bacteria are getting inside the canal. They wil also have problems with foul odour.

One story of a male who had a vaginoplasty who developed a fistula resulted in a temporary loop ileostomy causing him to become suicidal (see Exulansic's video 'Vaginoplasty Volumes: Tuck Everlasting (Reddit Chronicles)').

A female reddit user who underwent metoidioplasty genital surgery four weeks prior ended up with a fistula at the base of her 'scrotum' that leaks when she pees even if she tries pushing toilet paper onto it. Another user chimes in saying she experiences the same issue having developed a fistula after the initial surgery, but in her case she also had two failed repair surgeries so now 16 months after the initial surgery she is still dealing with a fistula (see Exulansic's video 'Metoidioplasty Moments: A Fistful of Fistula').

A female TikTok user who underwent phalloplasty genital surgery seemingly developed a fistula with urine coming out from around her 'scrotum' that required additional surgery to fix (see Exulansic's video 'Phalloplasty Philes: Pissing into the Windmill').

Another story is that of Ryan James, a female who had phalloplasty surgery. She developed a fistula and had to have a colostomy as a result of the vaginectomy (removal of the vagina) as part of the phalloplasty procedure (see Exulansic's interviews with Ryan James).

Granulation
Granulation tissue is a type of new connective tissue. This can form when healing from surgery. Pink granulation tissue is considered an indicator of healing. But unhealthy granulation tissue is dark red, often bleeds when touched, and may indicate the presence of wound infection. The latter may need to be treated. If it doesn't heal and causes other issues with the vaginoplasty, a repair surgery may be needed such as in the case of a male who had undergone rectosigmoid neovagina surgery but who had genital granulation tissue and also stenosis (narrowing) of the introitus (opening of the canal). The patient had two surgical revisions but this didn't help. The surgeons then used pig bladder tissue to try to fix the neovagina, see https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/30413867/.

Haematoma
A form of localised bleeding, a bruise. This occures when veins or arteries are damaged (for instance, by a direct hit) and blood collects outside of the veins/arteries. This can result in a hard mass that changes colour over time as it heals. It is possible to develope a haematoma from surgery and when severe, the haematoma may require surgery to drain the blood that collected and/or control the bleeding. There is an infection risk associated with haematomas. See https://sanaramedtech.com/blog/treating-post-surgical-seroma-hematoma/.

A female who had metoidioplasty genital surgery developed a haematoma that kept refilling that needed to be squeezed/drained. Based on her own video it seems this was a very painful and traumatic experience (see Exulansic's video 'The Artery of War'; she also had an arterial bleed).

Hair growth inside neovagina/neourethra
During genital surgery the surgeons may use skin that grows hair to create the neovagina canal or the neourethra (such as base of the penis, the scrotum, the arm or leg or abdomen, or groin). Even when the patient underwent permanent hair removal of this skin before surgery, it is possible for some hairs to still come back and grow inside the neovaginal canal or the neourethra of the phallo. It is very difficult if not impossible to remove such hairs when the surgery has already been performed. It is possible for those hairs to grow as ingrown hairs and become infected, or for the hairs to cause infections even when not ingrown. There are stories of people being able to feel hairs inside the neovaginal canal, or for hairs to come out of the phallus. Sometimes hair may not have been removed permanently from the phalloplasty donor site resulting in hair growth on the phallus and a need to shave the phallus.

Implant rupture
It is possible for implants to get a tear and break open, such as breast implants or testicular implants. This will require surgery to correct by removing the implant. Testicular implant rupture is rare, but it is conceivable for this to be less rare when done in females if their 'scrotum' is positioned further down in between the thighs/with thicker thighs.

Incontinence (urine and/or faeces)
Incontinence is the inability to retain body fluids. Urinary incontinence is the unintentional passing of urine. Faecal incontinence, or bowel incontinence is when someone struggles to control their bowels. Both conditions can result from transgender genital surgeries due to these surgeries working with urogenital tissues and with/near the intestines. These conditions are often embarrassing and upsetting and can cause people to smell of urine or poop even if they frequently bathe. It may be difficult to deal with incontinence and sometimes surgery might be required. If you have run out of surgery options for urinary incontinence, you may need to use pads and pants or a catheter for life. For bowel incontinence there are pads to wear or a plug to insert in your rectum, drugs to change your stool, or surgery to fix damage or place an electronic device to help the anus work better (for sacral nerve stimulation) or injection of bulking agents to help make the anus stronger. Sometimes a colostomy is the best solution. There are several women who have undergone transgender genital surgery who ended up with a colostomy long-term and possibly permanently. There is a male patient who underwent vaginoplasty who ended up unable to empty his bladder and with an inability to pass stool which required such a sacral nerve stimulation implant (see Exulansic's video 'The Piss Toll').

Infection
The invasion and growth of germs (bacteria, viruses, yeast, fungi) in your body. Whenever your body is cut there is a risk of infection and although a lot of measures are taken during surgery to reduce the infection risk, it is possible to end up with an infection from surgery. It is possible to get sepsis from an infection.

In 2017 a research paper was published describing a case study of an 18-year-old trans-identifying male who underwent vaginoplasty surgery resulting in a severe E. coli infection that caused septic shock and multi-organ failure resulting in death, see https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1083318816301747.

There is a story of a female who underwent a phalloplasty genital surgery who experienced a lot of complications including numerous infections: urethral infection, staph infection, MRSA infection, septic shock, and Clostridium difficile infection. She may have had to undergo 10 surgeries as part of this effort to get a penis. She also had pulmonary embolisms and has hair growing on her phallus (see Exulansic's video 'Phalloplasty Philes: #1 Fan').

A female who underwent phalloplasty surgery developed an abscess on her arm at the site where surgeons placed a rod/tube under the skin hoping the surface of the rod would scar over so that this newly created 'tunnel' could later be used as the 'urethra' in the neophallus, see https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1002/cia2.12137.

Infertility / sterility
Blocking puberty and/or using cross-sex hormones can affect someone's fertility whilst taking the drugs. It is not that clear whether this kind of drug use affects long-term fertility if someone were to stop taking these drugs. Time will tell. What is clear is that when the gonads (ovaries, testes) are removed, the person is permanently sterile. This means a male will not be able to father children, and a female will not be able to mother children. If a female has her uterus removed she will not be able to carry a pregnancy using another woman's egg either. Some trans-identifying people 'bank' sperm or eggs before they start using hormones in case they want to have their own child in the future. Some people stop their hormones for some months to start producing their own sperm/eggs to then 'bank' them, before continuing their hormone use. Creating a sperm sample is very simple as it requires maturbation into a collection cup if the male is able to do so. If this is not possible, the doctor can extract sperm directly from the testes but this is a medical procedure and thus more invasive than masturbation. Females will need to undergo hormone treatment to produce multiple eggs that are then collected using a needle that goes into the body. Embryos survive better than eggs when they are frozen so some females choose to have the collected eggs fertilised with someone's sperm (either their partner's or a sperm donor). This may mean that an underage female is using a sperm donor to fertilise her eggs so she has embryos for the future, meaning that the sperm donor's sperm is used to create embryos with eggs taken from a child. More experimental medical procedures include taking some ovarian tissue and keeping it in the freezer to try to use later to create eggs.

It is important to consider that there are no guarantees with fertility methods. Especially in the case were a female no longer has her uterus (but she does still have her ovaries or she has already banked eggs or embryos), her options to become a parent may be limited as gestational surrogacy (where another woman carries a baby that is not genetically related to her as she did not provide the egg) may be illegal in some countries or it may be illegal to pay a woman for this 'service' resulting in very few women wanting to be a surrogate (this also applies to gay male relationships where by definition there is no female). Even if commercial surrogacy is available, this may not be covered by insurance and the costs may be around $50k-100k (2023 estimate).

Loss of sensation
The loss of the ability to sense with a part of your body, for instance due to nerve damage from surgery. The affected area or body part may no longer be able to feel any touch or may not feel hot/cold or may not feel pressure anymore. This may only affect a small area or might affect a larger area. If this is only a small area on your leg, this may not be such a big deal. But a small area in your genital area may encompass most of your genital so the damage may have a much larger effect on your life. Loss of sensation in your hand may be dangerous if you can no longer feel hot/cold or pressure as you might end up hurting yourself without realising it.

Necrosis
Permanent death of tissues due to a lack of blood flow to this tissue. It is possible for parts of the neovagina or neovulva to become necrotic and fall off or requiring removal. It is also possible for this to happen to part or all of the neophallus (called ‘flap failure’ or ‘flap loss’). This can also happen to tissues in the area of the phalloplasty donor site if blood flow to it has been affected such as in a reddit user who had tissue in her leg (her donor site for phalloplasty) rot.

A case is described in which a male who received what was considered a successful recto-sigmoid vaginoplasty 18 months prior experienced a life-threatening small bowel obstruction. The authors warn that it is possible to get such a life-threatening complication at any point after the surgery: "The rate of adhesive small bowel obstruction is highest in the early period of any intra-abdominal post-operative surgeries, but the risk remains life-long. Transgender women receiving complicated vaginoplasty should be instructed to continue long-term follow-up to ensure early detection and management of post-operative complications." (see https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6232285/). This suggests that after such a surgery the patient may at any point in the future need specialised urgent/emergency care. How would this knowledge affect someone's life? If patients are made aware of this risk, will they still go on backpacking holidays where they may be hours away from the nearest road? Will they be worried about any periods during which they may not have healthcare insurance and will they go into major debt if they need this surgery during such a period without insurance? Are patients even told about this life-long risk before they undergo this surgery?

Neovaginal prolapse
This is the term for when the neovaginal canal is not properly attached inside the hole in the pelvic area and partially or fully comes out of the opening in the perineum. This will require surgery to correct and may mean loss of the canal. A study published in 2014 reported that between 4-12% of males who had vaginoplasty experienced a partial or total prolapse dependent on the the technique used to attach the canal, see https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4033431/.

Nerve damage
It is possible for nerves to be damage during surgery. This can result in changed sensation such as tingling, numbness, burning, loss of sensation, muscle weakness, or pain. This can resolve over time or be corrected with surgery, or may be permanent.

Pain
It is expected to experience pain after a procedure when you have maxed out your pain medication or are coming off of pain medication, and healing can hurt too. But this is expected to get better over time over a period of weeks and a couple of months. However, it is possible to keep experiencing pain or dyscomfort after surgery even months or years later.

Shape Shifter experienced intestinal cramps during sex in his colon vaginoplasty because, according to his knowledge, the colon used to create the neovaginal canal remains part of the digestive system, at least with regards to the nerves and how the brain interprets pain in that tissue. The colon is adapted to process (soft) stool as part of the digestive process, not to be touched from the inside with fingers, dilators, dildos, or a penis. He talks about his experiences undergoing several vaginoplasty surgeries and revisions on his YouTube channel.

A TikTok user who underwent metoidioplasty genital surgery still had a lot of pain 2.5 months after her surgery. Based on her video it is also clear she did not fully understand the surgical technique, underestimating how invasive the surgery was going to be and not being prepared for the amount of pain she was going to be in (see Exulansic's video 'Metoidioplasty Moments: Angry Camel Pose').

Patrick, one of the persons being interviewed as part of the 'Zembla' TV show on transgenderism, explains how years after his vaginoplasty he still experiences pain and dyscomfort in his pelvic area and bladder. He no longer identifies as a transwoman and instead now sees himself as a gay male. He no longer has male genitalia so he feels like his life is ruined by the medical interventions he underwent as part of his gender transition.

Pregnancy whilst on testosterone
Testosterone is a teratogen meaning that it can cause birth defects when a pregnant female uses the drug. In sheep, exposure to testosterone affected development of female foetuses (see https://academic.oup.com/endo/article/146/7/3185/2500473). In mice, testosterone affected development of the genitals in female foetuses (see https://www.pnas.org/doi/full/10.1073/pnas.1610471113).

There are suggestions that prenatal and neonatal testosterone exposure may affect human behaviour (see https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/17084045/; for a study on monkeys, see https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0018506X09000658).

Replacement of erectile device/implant
Erectile implants are developed for males who have a penis but suffer from erectile dysfunction. These devices/implants are estimated to have a life expectancy of 5 to 20 years . This data will come from male patients, possibly older on average than the females who opt for phalloplasty with an erectile implant. It is also conceivable that male patients are less active with the implant if they are on average of older age than the females who get this, so it is conceivable that the implant will last less long as it is used more. Moreover, the neophallus is not a penis so possibly higher risks of erosion may limit the lifespan of the implant in females. If you get the implant at age 20 or 30 and you may need to get it replaced every 10 years, this means 3-5 more surgeries later in life, possibly a lot more if you wear out the device faster.

Revision surgery
If the initial surgery did not leave you with the aesthetics you wanted and/or there are functional issues with your surgery results, you may want/need a revision surgery. Another surgery means another general anaesthesia and another situation in which you are taking risks. Moreover, there is no guarantee that whatever the issue is that makes you choose/need a revision will be solved for good.

Sepsis
Septicaemia, blood poisoning. A life-threatening reaction to an infection resulting in damage to your tissues and organs. This needs treatment in the hospital immediately.

A male who underwent vaginoplasty surgery and then revision surgery for it, and some month later got larger breast implants (he already had implants before) was found grey, cold and unresponsive by his boyfriend. His implants were very infected causing a kidney infection and then sepsis and kidney failure causing him to 'nearly die'. He got a secondary infection in his chest too. If he had been found any later, he may very well have died (see Exulansic's videos 'Vaginoplasty Volumes: Through the Eye of the Needle' and 'Get well soon, Ruby Fiera!').

Seroma
A seroma is a sterile collection of fluid under the skin, usually at the surgery site. The body may do this to fill up space after tisse has been removed. When a seroma is large or causes pain, it may need to be drained by needle and syringe and a drain may be put in. It is possible for a seroma to come back and to need to get it drained multiple times. A seroma may become infected or turn into an abscess. See https://sanaramedtech.com/blog/treating-post-surgical-seroma-hematoma/.

Sexual dysfuction
Surgery to the genitals may affect sexual function. A study on males who had undergone robotic peritoneal flap vaginoplasty showed that of those who had this surgery at least one year before the study was conducted, 14% were not able to experience orgasm, this was not correlated with orgasmic ability before surgery but was negatively related to smoking history, see https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/35337785/. A 2018 study that included males who had undergone penile inversion vaginoplasty found that 26% were unsatisfied or highly unsatisfied with neoclitoral sensitivity and that a 33% were unsatisfied or highly unsatisfied with neovaginal depth and 10% of patients did not experience orgasm, see https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5994261/. A meta analysis (reviewing many studies who report on patient outcomes) showed that the ability to achieve orgasm was 76% in patients who had undergone vaginoplasty surgery meaning that 24% of those patients were not able to experience orgasm. This low average was mostly due to penile inversion vaginoplasty, the most common form of vaginoplasty, with 73% being able to have an orgasm. The patients who underwent a form of intestinal vaginoplasty had better results with 95% being able to achieve orgasm. The patients who underwent intestinal vaginoplasty had a higher proportion of fistula, stenosis and strictures, and prolapse than the males who underwent penile inversion (see https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7984836/). From this study it is not clear whether the studies they included managed to follow up on all the patients on who they performed this surgery.

Then there's the story of Jazz Jennings who after puberty blockers and cross sex hormones had a botched vaginoplasty surgery (because he did not have enough genital skin to work with due to his puberty being blocked; he needed multiple revisions and the surgeons ended up taking skin grafts from his upper thigh area). Jazz seems to be struggling with sexual funtion. Trans-identifying male surgeon Marci Bowers was involved in some of Jazz' vaginoplasty surgeries and is reported as having stated that if a someone has never experienced orgasm before surgery and their puberty has been blocked, it is very difficult to achieve that afterwards. He acknowledges this is an overlooked problem and he wonders how this will affect the patient's long-term happiness if they are not able to be a responsive lover (see https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/women-who-stray/202111/does-affirmative-treatment-impair-sexual-response-in-trans-youth).

A story of a female reddit user who underwent metoidioplasty genital surgery describes how at four months after the surgery she is still struggling with sensations in her genital area. She can only feel half of her micro "penis" and the sensation she does have she describes as 'half pleasurable and half just uncomfortable' (see Exulansic's video 'Metoidioplasty Moments: The Piss Nick').

Oestrogen use by males is associated with a decreased libido and can cause erectile dysfunction. This can result in the penis shrinking. The testicles are also expected to shrink. Vaginoplasty may rely on the penile and scrotum skin to create a 'convincing' neovulva and neovagina so shrinking of this 'source' material may pose issues when the patient wants to undergo vaginoplasty.

Testosterone use by females can cause vaginal atrophy (thinning and drying of the vaginal tissue making it more fragile) and pain during sexual intercourse.

See the following paper for a discussion of affirmation-only treatment for transgenderism and the role of the placebo effect (including a discussion on sexual function): https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC9886596/.

Stenosis, stricture
A narrowing of a structure. It is possible to have stenosis in the neovagina canal making it painful and/or difficult or even impossible to dilate and have sexual intercourse. This can make it difficult to clean the inside (douching) which may result in unpleasant smell or infections.

Shape Shifter is a male who has medically transitioned but regrets his genital surgeries. He developed stenosis of the canal almost immediately after surgery. Three revision surgeries to help correct the stenosis resulted in him developing a colorectal fistula. This fistula was torn back open during his fourth revision surgery and no surgeon will help him now as they suspect that another revision surgery may leave Shape with a colostomy bag, see https://reduxx.info/opinion-the-boy-who-shifted-shapes/ (and see Exulansic's video 'Vaginoplasty Volumes: The WPATH of Least Dehiscence' and the videos in which Exulansic and Shape Shifter interview each other).

Another male who underwent vaginoplasty experienced vaginal stenosis, requiring the canal to be replaced in an additional surgery, 8 months after the initial surgery (see Exulansic's video 'Update on Rumer Has a Clit Dude').

It is also possible for a (neo)urethra made as part of a metoidioplasty or phalloplasty to become too narrow. This restricts the flow of urine and may cause diverticuli and infections such as urinary tract infection. Stenosis or stricture may make it impossible to fully empty the bladder which might make the patient not drink enough water because they have such difficulty passing urine, which can in turn cause kidney stones or bladder stones. This also increases the chances of getting a urinary tract infection (UTI).

Stroke
An ischaemic stroke is what occurs when the blood flow to part of the brain is cut off. This can be due to a blood clot or air bubble (embolism) blocking the flow of blood. A hemorrhagic stroke is when an artery in the brain ruptures or leaks putting pressure on the brain which damages the brain cells. A mini-stroke (a transient ischemic attack) blocks blood flow only for a short time (less than 5 minutes). It is possible for a stroke to be a surgical complication.

A 30-year old male experienced a stroke during facial feminisation surgery. His complaints were ignored by hospital staff and when he eventually did get appropriate medical care elsewhere (emergency services), he had lost the ability to use one of his arms, from which he never recovered so he now has a permanent disability. It turns out that during his facial feminisation surgery they severely damaged his carotid artery and that as a result he had suffered a stroke in his right frontal lobe resulting in brain damage (see his reddit post titled 'I thought FFS would change my life, but not like this... (Dr. Alex Kim)' and Exulansic's video 'Facial Feminization Fumbles: A Sense of Humerus').

Suicidality
Despite activists claiming that gender transition is the only way to prevent transgender people from wanting to exit this world, there are people who after medical transition remain/become suicidal. Patrick, a Dutch man, is one of these people. He is interviewed in the 'Zembla' documentary on transgenderism in which he shares his lifelong struggles with severe mental health issues and substance abuse. He was failed by the medical system who on his first attempt to get help for transgenderism recognised he was not transgender, but when he tried again at another clinic some years later he, in his experience, was affirmed and encouraged to medically transition. He underwent vaginoplasty surgery that he now deeply regrets. He now no longer identifies as a transwoman but as a homosexual man. He no longer has male genitalia and he experiences dyscomfort in his pelvic area and his bladder and he is struggling with severe mental health issues to the point where he is contemplating assisted suicide, for which he has been approved (in the Netherlands, assisted suicide is allowed in certain circumstances).

Some scientific data suggests gender-affirming treatment may reduce suicide-related outcomes (see https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC10027312/ for a narrative review), but some of these studies suffer from issues such as no data on suicidality before treatment, not controlling for other mental health issues, or loss to follow up (not being able to contact every person that underwent gender-affirming treatment in your clinic; it is possible that the proportion of people with regret, a bad outcome, or the worst outcome: suicide, is higher in those patients the clinic is unable to contact). These studies usually only look at people who received affirmation treatment (drugs and surgeries) and do not compare the outcomes for this group to a group with the same diagnosis who get no treatment or who get another kind of treatment (such as talk therapy or any other kind of therapy/treatment for mental health). It is then not possible to say which kind of treatment is superior when it comes to reducing suicidality (or compare any other kind of outcome).

Testosterone gel transfer
One method for taking the drug testosterone is by a gel that is applied onto the skin. The testosterone will be absorbed from the gel into the skin. One practical problem with this is that it is possible for others around the patient to be exposed to this testosterone by touching the patient's skin where the gel was applied or possibly through sharing a towel or bedding on which the gel is rubbed off. This testosterone exposure can be harmful to children of both sexes and to women. A case in the literature describes a 31 year old woman who had grown more body hair in the past year. Her testosterone level was measured as being 6.7 nmol/l at the highest when less than 2.5 nmol/l is considered normal. Her partner used testosterone gel for a medical condition but he was not aware of the recommendation to take a shower or cover the area where he applied the gel before having physical contact with others. When he stopped using the gel, her testosterone level went back to normal. When he started using the gel again, despite explicit instructions to cover the application site or shower before contact, the woman's testosterone level increased again. The male then switched to injecting testosterone and the woman's testosterone went back to normal (see https://academic.oup.com/humrep/article/24/2/425/808493). This illustrates that apparently instructions were not given or followed, and that even after the partner was exposed to testosterone and explicit instructions to reduce transfer, the female partner was still exposed to testosterone.

A publication describes two cases of transfer of testosterone gel from fathers (males using this gel for medical reasons) to their children. The first case involves a two year old boy whose penis had grown, who was experiencing frequent erections, who was growing pubic hair, and who had grown taller in the past few months. The penis was at Tanner class (stage) III which is usually seen in boys around age 13. He had a very high level of testosterone for his age and his bone age had advanced by three years. The changes seemingly reversed once he was no longer exposed to testosterone gel. The second case involved a 6 year old boy who had started growing pubic hair and growth of the penis in the past few months. He was also tall and had advanced bone age. His exposure was suppressed but he nevertheless started puberty. Read about both cases here: https://www.elsevier.es/en-revista-endocrinologia-diabetes-nutricion-english-ed--413-articulo-potential-consequences-in-children-testosterone-S2530018017300768.

The UK government includes information on this topic on its website stating a risk of harm to children following accidental exposure to Testogel (a testosterone gel). They warn of premature puberty and genital enlargement in children who were in close physical contact with an adult using testosterone gel and who were repeatedly exposed (see https://www.gov.uk/drug-safety-update/topical-testosterone-testogel-risk-of-harm-to-children-following-accidental-exposure).

Urination / voiding issues
It is possible to severely damage the ability to urinate with gender genital surgeries. There is the story of a male who got vaginoplasty surgery and now has to use the bathroom to pee every one or two hours including when he wants to sleep (see Exulansic's video 'Jacob's Bladder'). There are also the stories of many females who had gender genital surgery who ended up with urination difficulties such as Gruffin (covered extensively by Exulansic) who developed bladder stones (in addition to nearly losing a leg and nearly dying from blood clots). Many females who get phalloplasty appear to struggle to complete urination and after peeing always have some urine dribble out of the phallus no matter how much they squeeze and push and jump and wiggle.

UTI
UTI stands for urinary tract infection. It encompasses infections of any part of the urinary system: the kidneys, ureters, bladder, and urethra. If someone struggles to urinate or can not fully void their bladder they might be at a higher risk of developing a UTI. This may start in the urethra and if not successfully treated can develop into a bladder infection or even a kidney infection.

Vocal damage
It is possible for males who get so-called vocal feminisation surgery to end up with damage to their voice losing part of their vocal range and for their voice to seemingly stop working as described by one such patient posting on reddit (see Exulansic's video 'Tracheal Troubles: Falsetto Hope').

Wound dehiscence / wound separation
This is the term for when a surgery incision reopens. This can be the result of an infection, pressure on the sutures, poor suture technique, or decreased blood flow. This may require medical attention to resolve. This is seen in some people who undergo gender genital surgeries and wound separation can increase the risk for infection, can cause more scarring, and can change what the end result looks like.

One such example of a patient with wound separation is Rylan who chose to undergo a cosmetic double mastectomy for gender reasons. Because of her obesity she had few surgeons to choose from (surgery is more risky on obese people so most surgeons will have a BMI cap for (cosmetic) surgeries). The surgeon that removed her healthy breasts neglected her concerns about issues with healing and wound separation despite frequent communication from Rylan to the surgical team. Rylan had to find emergency medical care elsewhere when she had a golfball-sized blood clot fall out of her wound whilst out in public. By this time she had been bleeding from the wounds for days. She then had to undergo another surgery to have over half a foot of flesh that had become infected with a bacterial infection removed. One of her nurses told her she could have gone septic had she not gotten this 'repair' surgery. You can read all about the surgeon who removed Rylan's healthy breasts here: https://lilymaynard.com/wielding-the-sidhbh-gallagher/, and view video content about this case in Ella Androphobia's video titled 'Dr. Sidhbh Gallagher - Necrotizing Gaslighter'.